Fetish & BDSM

Fetish & BDSM

1464 Members

Rubber
Rubber is one of the oldest and best known of fetishes. For some, the smell alone turns them on, while for others it’s the feel if the substance. Latex or rubber fetishists call themsel...

5419 Members

Dominance
Had straights even heard about domination before the atrocious Fifty Shades of Grey? Given the fuss about the book, you would think not! And, in any case, it’s a poor representation of ...

2719 Members

High Heels
High heels: elegant, powerful, dangerous. There are few better ways to be noticed than donning a six-inch pair of killer stilettos. The declaration is instant and bold: “This is a woman...

5658 Members

Women's Lingerie
The term is self-explanatory: knickers, bras, fancy pants, suspenders: anything that a lady wears as an under garment. It’s how you incorporate it into your sex life that matters. This ...

1334 Members

Latex/PVC
Latex is a type of rubber while PVC refers to shiny clothes made of polyvinyl chloride. The great thing about both types of clothing is that they’re wipe down - and that really does not...

859 Members

Goth
Goths can be gay! In fact, they can be any gender and any sexuality at all - because, despite what others may say, they’re human too! You can spot the Goth in your town from their dark ...

1709 Members

Corsets
The corset, traditionally worn by women, holds the torso in a particular way for either medical or aesthetic purposes. There was a time when women wore them as a matter of course in the...

2040 Members

Latex Fetish
Latex is a type of rubber while PVC refers to shiny clothes made of polyvinyl chloride. The great thing about both types of clothing is that they’re wipe down - and that really does not...

3284 Members

Leather
Leather has a unique place in gay male culture and the BDSM world, and is possibly the most popular fetish of them all. The gay leather scene is thriving in places like Berlin and Amste...

7182 Members

Submission
“Get down on your knees and beg for it like the dog you are!” This is perhaps the stereotypical phrase someone will come up with when they’re thinking about submission – but there are s...

5665 Members

BDSM
The acronym BDSM stands for Bondage, Domination, Sadism and Masochism. Bondage is about restriction of movement; domination, the control over another person; sadism, the pleasure is inf...

720 Members

Breath Play
No, not the kind of heavy breathers who pester you with dirty phone calls, but a type of BDSM play centred on restricting a partner’s air flow to increase sexual pleasure. The dangers s...

2685 Members

Nylon Fetish
Ultra-sheers, suspenders, Black Cat seamed pant-hose tights (to name but a few varieties), what would ladies do without them? Well, incredible as it may seem, before 1935 when they debu...

19248 Members

Fetish
Even the word sounds sensuous and risque. It’s derived from the Portuguese ‘feitico’, which comes from the Latin ‘facticius’ - meaning ‘to make’. It’s all about the power that a certain...

1215 Members

Footwear
Even the most common place attire can be used to bring you to the heights of passion – and this includes shoes. Foot fetishes are often combined with this, or perhaps you’re simply turn...

6769 Members

Bondage
Bondage nights are a popular fixture at LGBT clubs all over the world, and are one of the integral parts of BDSM. It’s all about controlling another partner’s ability to move, thereby e...

669 Members

Scratching
You can always tell when someone has given their partner a bloody good seeing to by the scratches on their back. Sex is all about abandon, letting go and living in the moment, and it’s ...

1925 Members

Wax Play
A well aimed bit of hot wax dropped on your partner’s body can really heighten the intensity at those crucial moments. Choose your candles carefully and the range you drop the wax from:...

870 Members

Biting
Biting, like scratching, is all about the great pain-pleasure divide in sex – and it’s subjective. By all means make it intense and animalistic. Who says that love can only be shown by ...

1282 Members

Uniforms
Authority can be very sexy, and there are few more direct ways of denoting power than by wearing a uniform, which instantly sets up a power dynamic ripe for sexual exploration. Uniforms...

3514 Members

Spanking
You don’t have to be a BDSM expert to practice this - many of us have indulged in a bit of light ‘whip crack away’ in the boudoir, and a few well aimed slaps on the buttocks or thighs c...

8756 Members

S&M
There is, as they say, a fine line between pain and pleasure – and this is what sadomasochism or S&M is built upon. The sadist gets off on giving the pain, while the masochist likes rec...

19388 Members

Fisting
Fisting is generally associated with the harder more extreme end of gay male sex, but all LGBT people can do it. It’s not just for preserve of men in leather harnesses. But neither is i...

580 Members

Odors
"Smells: like it or not, we all give them off - it’s what you do with them that matters. For some, cleanliness truly is next to godliness, while others relish nothing more than body odo...

804 Members

Scat
Now this one really is an acquired taste! Scat – also known as Coprophilia, is about gaining sexual pleasure from playing with shit – whether it be your own or someone else’s. It applie...
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