8 Members Adult Movie Theatres
Bored of watching porn at home on your own? The adult movie theatre offers then solution. It’s not about savouring some celluloid masterpiece, but hooking up for some easy, no strings f...
63497 Members Anal Sex
This term does what it says on the tin. While it’s most associated with gay men, anyone can have anal sex. The facts are that the inner and outer sphincter have thousands of nerve endin...
0 Members Anal Toys
There’s a staggering variety of anal toys on the market now, aimed at men and women of all sexualities. The most popular, of course, is the dildo, which is now available in all shapes a...
0 Members Armpit Sex
Every hole’s a goal when it comes to sex, and the armpits really are no exception. Society, of course, tells us that burying your face there and sniffing like a rampant aardwark on heat...
22 Members Ass Play
Oh, the elusive quest for the G-spot! Everyone has one, so this is something that is open (so to speak!) to everyone, whether you’re gay, lesbian, bisexual or trans. Use your imaginatio...
17 Members BDSM
The acronym BDSM stands for Bondage, Domination, Sadism and Masochism. Bondage is about restriction of movement; domination, the control over another person; sadism, the pleasure is inf...
7 Members Balls
It may not be the most beautiful part of the male body to look at, but the scrotum can be the gateway for endless pleasure. Tug them, twist them, give them a good sucking (‘tea bagging’...
6 Members Bears
Gone are the days when we lived out in the open and needed body hair to fend us from the elements; now it arguably serves only an erotic function. Some find it repulsive, others – espec...
2 Members Biting
Biting, like scratching, is all about the great pain-pleasure divide in sex – and it’s subjective. By all means make it intense and animalistic. Who says that love can only be shown by ...
0 Members Bizarre
This one really is subjective. Dictionary synonyms of ‘bizarre’ include ‘peculiar ‘ odd’, ‘outlandish’, ‘conventional’, ‘unfamiliar’ - and perhaps the best one of all for LGBT people: ‘...
7 Members Blindfolds
Blindfolds really do give you a license to let your fantasies run wild. Surprise is key here – but so is trust. By allowing yourself to be blindfolded you’re shutting off one of your mo...
2 Members Body Art
Jewellery, tattoos and body painting are all forms of body art – different ways of painting the body. Some people see all that skin as a blank canvas, a gift to an artist – themselves. ...
0 Members Body Hair
Gone are the days when we lived out in the open and needed body hair to fend us from the elements; now it arguably serves only an erotic function. Some find it repulsive, others – espec...
9 Members Bondage
Bondage nights are a popular fixture at LGBT clubs all over the world, and are one of the integral parts of BDSM. It’s all about controlling another partner’s ability to move, thereby e...
1 Members Bottom
In simple mechanics this is the person who allows a penis or dildo to be placed into his arse in anal sex. As with tops, bottoms come in all shapes and sizes. You may assume the muscle ...
0 Members Breath Play
No, not the kind of heavy breathers who pester you with dirty phone calls, but a type of BDSM play centred on restricting a partner’s air flow to increase sexual pleasure. The dangers s...
12 Members Butts
“Bend over and show us your Booty!” Whatever the size and shape of your arse, you’ll find someone who loves it. This is perhaps most important to gay and bi men, who can often be divide...
8 Members Chat
Remember the ancient, lost art of internet conversation - when chat rooms were about sharing your interests as well as your sexual tastes, rather than just clicking a pre-saved cock or ...
0 Members Cock Rings
At the end of the day, whether men like it or not, they have to face facts: sometimes they need a little help keeping hard. The trusted cock ring can keeps the bloody pumping to that ol...
19 Members Cocks
Dicks, Wangers, Schlongs, One-eyed-monsters, there are endless names for it, but it’s the love of it – using it, or being used by it – that all gay men have in common. The penis is abso...
7 Members Corsets
The corset, traditionally worn by women, holds the torso in a particular way for either medical or aesthetic purposes. There was a time when women wore them as a matter of course in the...
10 Members Cottaging
No, we’re not talking long walks in the country gazing a picturesque little houses. ‘Cottaging’ - another one of those wonderful gay male terms that straights are often ignorant of - in...
4 Members Crossdressing
Cross dressing not limited to any one gender or sexuality, but it is often incorrectly clumped together with drag. The two are very different: drag is a public performance and has a lon...
19 Members Cum Swallowing
“Do you spit or swallow?” This is possibly one of the most frequent questions gay men are asked when it comes to sex. The response is up to you. Some won’t let spunk anywhere near their...
18 Members Cum Swapping
Having the cum towel neatly folded next to the bed is simply too boring for some gay men. “What a waste!” they cry. The whole sexual act becomes an Olympic championship with the prizes ...
4 Members Cut Cocks
Gay and bisexual guys have different attitudes to circumcised cocks. Some love nothing more than rolling back the foreskin with their teeth; others won’t give those that are uncut a sec...
8 Members Cybersex
Phone sex lines have existed for decades, and you’ll find them the smutty section at the back of many LGBT magazines alongside the escort ads. Indulge in your wildest fantasies with a s...
8 Members Deep Throat
Deep throating is hardcore: we’re not talking about a bit of light fellatio around the cock’s bell end here, this is about getting all of that throbbing hose pipe right down your throat...
0 Members Diaper Fetish
The great thing about fetishes is that no matter how extreme or unpalatable it may sound to some, you will always find others who share your desires and delight in them. Diaper play inv...
0 Members Dildos
The oldest and most trusted sex toys in the world, dildos are used by everyone: gay men, lesbians, bisexuals, trans people, straights. Shaped like the penis, you can use it on someone e...
23 Members Dirty Talk
Who doesn’t like to talk dirty? Nothing is off limits when it’s between two consenting adults. Want to compare someone’s endowment to a chipolata or a vagina to a ham dropped from the t...
16 Members Dominance
Had straights even heard about domination before the atrocious Fifty Shades of Grey? Given the fuss about the book, you would think not! And, in any case, it’s a poor representation of ...
4 Members Elevator Sex
Remember that scene in Fatal Attraction where Glenn Close rides Michael Douglas as they’re taking the elevator to her apartment for some a weekend of sex and wrist slashing action? Perh...
2 Members Erotic Art
Erotic art is as old as time itself - and we can see the earliest representations of sexual identity in it; just look at the Romans and the Greeks. The art - and attitudes towards it - ...
7 Members Erotic Fiction
There was a time – back in the dark ages of the closet – when LGBT books were deemed so “perverted” that they’d be covered in brown wrapping paper, and you’d have to have them discreetl...
4 Members Erotic Film
Long gone are the days when you had to visit your local porn store for a VHS tape concealed in a discreet brown paper bag. There’s endless LGBT porn of every conceivable variety availab...
6 Members Erotic Photography
The history of art is full of nudes: male, females and everything else in between. Queer photographers like Robert Mapplethorpe broke the rules and revolutionised attitudes to sexuality...
3 Members Exhibitionism
So you think you’ve got the hottest body and that everyone should see it? Why else have you spent all those hours down the gym working on that washboard stomach if not to show it off? E...
0 Members Eyes
“His eyes are like deep, mysterious blue pools that I could quite happily drown in.” Ok, that’s a particularly florid description, but it sums up the impact that eyes can have. Known as...
13 Members Facesitting
Whip down your pants and tell your partner to brace themselves! Yes, it’s as it sounds: sitting on your partner’s face, planting you arse, your cock or your vagina there and smothering ...
4 Members Feet
This is a well-known fetish which gets plenty of attention from the media - usually poking fun at those who are into it. But aren’t they the ones missing out? The feet - and toes - are ...
19711 Members Fetish
Even the word sounds sensuous and risque. It’s derived from the Portuguese ‘feitico’, which comes from the Latin ‘facticius’ - meaning ‘to make’. It’s all about the power that a certain...
20 Members Fingering
Judicious use of your fingers on your partner’s arse is certainly one tried and trust method to get them wet and willing. How you use your fingers is entirely up to you, and you’ll find...
17875 Members Fisting
Fisting is generally associated with the harder more extreme end of gay male sex, but all LGBT people can do it. It’s not just for preserve of men in leather harnesses. But neither is i...
3 Members Footwear
Even the most common place attire can be used to bring you to the heights of passion – and this includes shoes. Foot fetishes are often combined with this, or perhaps you’re simply turn...
24 Members Foreplay
This is where it all starts – the precursor to the main action! It’s all about getting your partner squealing with excitement and anticipation prior to intercourse. Make use of your fin...
7 Members Free Love
Mention “free love” and you’ll probably think of some 1960s hippy throw-back, naked and smoking copious amounts of grass. The term, associated with the sexual revolution, is all rather ...
26 Members Fucking
LGBT people are a lot more direct that straights generally – and this is no different when it comes to sex. No other group use the word “fucking” as freely when it comes to describing i...
14 Members Gangbang
This is the workout to end all workout, which gives another meaning to team sports. If you believe porn, we’re gang banging all the time. It can feature just one willing bottom – male o...
1 Members Genital Piercings
Ear rings are, of course, common place now – and gone is the time that having one might mean that a guy was gay. But pierced ears and noses are just where it starts. You want to give th...
48439 Members Glory Hole
"What’s so great about a hole in the wall? Well, this hole leads the curious to a bit of incognito fun. Glory holes are all over the place: in public toilets of some bars and clubs, or ...
1 Members Goth
Goths can be gay! In fact, they can be any gender and any sexuality at all - because, despite what others may say, they’re human too! You can spot the Goth in your town from their dark ...
18 Members Group Sex
Gay men especially have always had a healthy attitude to sex with lots of different people at the same time. You’ll find them huddled around cruising grounds or in the sand dunes on a b...
28553 Members Hair
Stereotypes abound when it comes to hair – and so do sexual fetishes. Some like it long, others very short. But there are no rules here: not all lesbians have a number two crop and not ...
7 Members Handcuffs
The fantasy is a common one: encountering some brooding cop down a dark alley, being handcuffed and then taken across the bonnet of a police car. Handcuffs are the most common element i...
30 Members Handjobs
Masturbation – but with a partner, using only your hands and working that dick until it squirts. Handjobs are often associated with quick release (in the back seat of a car, for example...
0 Members Hands
We all have them (unless we’re very unlucky), and they’re used in almost everything we do – and that naturally includes sex. After our sexual parts, hands are what we use to give pleasu...
3 Members Hentai / Anime
Sometimes – especially when it comes to sex – reality is simply not enough. To be frank, it just falls short: it’s over in minutes and that drop dead guy you’ve been lusting after doesn...
9 Members High Heels
High heels: elegant, powerful, dangerous. There are few better ways to be noticed than donning a six-inch pair of killer stilettos. The declaration is instant and bold: “This is a woman...
49 Members Kissing
Who doesn’t like kissing? Traditionally, it’s what defines romantic love. The days when LGBT people couldn’t kiss their partners in public are thankfully gone (at least in many parts of...
8 Members Latex Fetish
Latex is a type of rubber while PVC refers to shiny clothes made of polyvinyl chloride. The great thing about both types of clothing is that they’re wipe down - and that really does not...
6 Members Latex/PVC
Latex is a type of rubber while PVC refers to shiny clothes made of polyvinyl chloride. The great thing about both types of clothing is that they’re wipe down - and that really does not...
4 Members Leather
Leather has a unique place in gay male culture and the BDSM world, and is possibly the most popular fetish of them all. The gay leather scene is thriving in places like Berlin and Amste...
1 Members Legs
Legs immediately grab another person’s attention. Long legs, they say, are more attractive than shorter ones - but this, of course, varies according to a person’s taste. Some like them ...
6 Members Lips
Doesn’t everything start with the lips? How else do we show affection, but by kissing? They’re one of the first things we notice in a partner, and they come in every conceivable shape, ...
3 Members Locker Room Sex
This is certainly one of the most popular scenarios in gay male porn: the strapping coach putting the willing student through his paces after a sweaty game of soccer. It’s a typical hig...
14 Members MMF
Threesomes really are a minefield with no particular rules of engagement. The MMF Threesomes features two men and one woman. Perhaps two bi guys fancy trying it out with a straight or b...
7 Members Male Domination
Mention “male domination” to some and they’ll shake with horror. “Aren’t men dominating enough?” they may ask. That may be so, but some women or trans people may actively choose to subm...
25 Members Massage
There’s no part of your body that can’t be massaged - you just have to use your imagination. The word ‘massage’ is often seen as a euphemism for some kind of sexual act that culminates ...
23 Members Masturbation
Whether you like it or not, we’re all a bunch of wankers! Jacking off, whacking one out, banging the bishop, flicking the bean – call it what you will, everyone does it. There’s no bett...
1 Members Metrosexual Men
His facial hair is impeccable; his pubic hair is trimmed to within an inch of its life; his legs are waxed like a Brazilian model; and even his eyebrows are plucked into the most perfec...
3 Members Muscular Bodies
Check out the pictures in gay magazines and you could be fooled into thinking that every gay man alive has a body like the incredible hulk. People of all sexualities and genders can hav...
0 Members Nipple Play
The nipples are hanging there waiting to be tweaked, twisted, chewed on and even tortured. Some are like a cumming button, while others have little sensitivity. ...
3 Members Nudism
“We’re born naked, and the rest is drag,” said the legendary drag queen RuPaul – and who are we to argue with him? Clothes are a societal construct; fashions change over time and, those...
6 Members Nylon Fetish
Ultra-sheers, suspenders, Black Cat seamed pant-hose tights (to name but a few varieties), what would ladies do without them? Well, incredible as it may seem, before 1935 when they debu...
4 Members Nymphomania
“Oh, that person is such a nympho!” How many times have you heard this before as a way of making fun of someone who loves and has a lot of sex? The true meaning of the word is actually ...
2 Members Odors
"Smells: like it or not, we all give them off - it’s what you do with them that matters. For some, cleanliness truly is next to godliness, while others relish nothing more than body odo...
11 Members Older Sex Partners
Maturity and experience is sexy! The older LGBT person has been around the block. They know how to navigate the complex avenues of life and love – not to mention all the tricks they've ...
54 Members Oral Sex
Blow jobs, giving someone a good old lick out and the fabled 69 position are just some of the many ways you can have oral sex - the most popular and widely practised type of foreplay th...
22 Members Outdoor Sex
Having sex in a bed is far too traditional and boring. Isn’t that what straights do? Use your imagination and add some excitement to your antics – there’s a whole world outside your fro...
1 Members PVC Fetish
PVC refers to shiny clothes made of polyvinyl chloride. The great thing about both types of clothing is that they’re wipe down - and that really does not need much in the way of explana...
11 Members Parking Lot Sex (Dogging)
This is another form of cruising or outdoor sex, also known as ‘dogging’. Is there anything better than getting down to it in the semi-seclusion of your car and feeling that big hand br...
4 Members Partner Swapping
All relationships go through boring patches. That’s life. And LGBT relationships are no different in that respect. But the big difference between these and straight partnerships is that...
2 Members Phone Sex
Gone are the days when each house had just one phone stationed in the hallway. Wipe screen mobiles mean you can have (handsfree) phone sex where ever you want. LGBT phone sex lines have...
7 Members Photo Swapping
Long gone are the times that LGBT would carefully - and often secretly - wrap prints of themselves in brown envelopes and send them in the mail to guys or girls they’d been correspondin...
1 Members Piercings
There was a time when a girl had to beg her parents to have her ears pierced. It was seen as a rite of passage, a sign of maturity. Now they’re so common place on both men and women tha...
1 Members Polyamory
Polyamorous people are those who are in more than one loving relationship at the same time. To some this sounds frightfully complicated and unrealistic – but for others it really does w...
8 Members Porn
Gay people have always had a more relaxed attitude to pornography than heterosexuals. Perhaps it’s to do with people associating porn with secrecy and shame – and the often hidden lives...
4 Members Pubic Hair
Everyone remembers their first pubes sprouting, and that feeling of self-consciousness but also pride. But what do you then do with them? It’s different for all LGBT people. Some have a...
12 Members Quickies
“Fancy a quicky?” said the actress to the bishop. It’s the sort of word that you’ll hear in a British Carry On film - but it does exactly what it says: this is fast (but not necessarily...
2 Members Rimming
Rimming is about working your tongue around your partner’s arse. There are all manner of different ways to do this, and you’ll find what works best for you. Kiss it, lighting tweak it w...
3 Members Risqué Dressing
Fishnet stockings, bulging thongs or fuck-me pumps. Experiment with how you dress in the boudoir to entice your partner in private, or pop along to one of many LGBT themed club nights. ...
16 Members Role Play
Role play is all about spicing up your sex life, giving you the opportunity to inhabit different characters in a vast array or situations. It’s all about the psycho dynamic between two ...
4 Members Rubber
Rubber is one of the oldest and best known of fetishes. For some, the smell alone turns them on, while for others it’s the feel if the substance. Latex or rubber fetishists call themsel...
8040 Members S&M
There is, as they say, a fine line between pain and pleasure – and this is what sadomasochism or S&M is built upon. The sadist gets off on giving the pain, while the masochist likes rec...
9 Members Sauna Sex
Tell a straight person this is a place where men can have endless anonymous sex in an array of private cabins, darkrooms, glory holes and communal areas, and their fascination will know...
0 Members Scat
Now this one really is an acquired taste! Scat – also known as Coprophilia, is about gaining sexual pleasure from playing with shit – whether it be your own or someone else’s. It applie...
2 Members Scratching
You can always tell when someone has given their partner a bloody good seeing to by the scratches on their back. Sex is all about abandon, letting go and living in the moment, and it’s ...
4 Members Sex Parties
These gatherings can include any number of partners. The important thing is that it’s consensual. In recent years sex parties - at least for gay men - have often involved the consumptio...
2 Members Sex Swing
Get the stirrups and shackles ready and turn your bedroom into an adventure playground. The love swing, or perhaps more accurately ‘sex swing’, can provide you with hours of enjoyment. ...
17 Members Sex Toys
Tired of using just your fingers or your dick? Grab hold of an inanimate object. Sex toys have been around forever – they’ve just become more sophisticated over time. They’re often shap...
0 Members Sex at Work
Sadly, we spend most of our time here, so it’s almost inevitable that we’re going to be attracted to someone we work with at some stage in our lives. Similarly, our carnal urges don’t j...
6 Members Sex at the Movies
The darkened move theatre has always lent itself to passion, with lovers clambering to the back row for some hot fumblings – or, if you’re particularly brazen, the front row. Let’s face...
14 Members Sex in the Car
The roar of the engine is a sure-fire way to get your own under carriage revving, so fasten your seat belts and test the durability of your chassis to its limits. Depending on the size ...
4 Members Sex in the Swimming Pool
The swimming pool: that most beloved of gay porn sets. Who hasn’t dreamt of all those ever-ready and available muscle bound hunks or gorgeous girls lounging around a sun-drenched pool r...
5 Members Sex in the Water
The great thing about water is that other people can’t see what you’re getting up to beneath the surface. There’s something about the sea crashing against your quivering thighs which br...
6 Members Sex on the Beach
Beaches mean holidays, and holiday mean no work and plenty of time for…well, sex. There’s something about those waves crashing against the open horizon that just puts you in the mood fo...
4 Members Sex on the Washing Machine
Leading such busy lives makes multi-tasking almost essential, so why jump on top of that washing machine and get a full load of your own as you’re doing the daily laundry. Brace yoursel...
18 Members Shower Sex
This is the only place in the house where you can get dirty and clean at the same time - perfect multi-tasking. When you’ve been at it all night, there’s nothing like one last burst in ...
0 Members Six Packs
Check out any of the gay magazines and you’ll see the six pack’s sacred place in gay male culture: it’s the holy grail, the ultimate prize. Some men will do anything to obtain one, and ...
1 Members Smoking
“Do you smoke after sex?” “Well, I’ve never checked”, goes the old joke. We’re living in a time when smoking has never been more unpopular. What was once cool and rebellious is now seen...
3 Members Sock Fetish
Sock fetishes are as old as time, and people often turn their noses up at them – but for some the pungent aroma of the ripest, week-old sock sends them into the very heights of ecstasy....
2 Members Spandex
A more common name for Spandex is Lycra, yes, that amazingly flexible material which you see those stunningly fit guys and girls prance around in during the Olympics or your local gym. ...
12 Members Spanking
You don’t have to be a BDSM expert to practice this - many of us have indulged in a bit of light ‘whip crack away’ in the boudoir, and a few well aimed slaps on the buttocks or thighs c...
14 Members Sperm
Spunk, Jism, the shite stuff: just a few of the other names for the goey mess that squirts out of the scared One Eyed Monster. For ultra-Conservative, religious straights, man eggs shou...
5 Members Squirting
Getting that one-eyed monster to squirt buckets is a gay male cum whore’s joy, and few things are hotter than working that over-sized pistol, gazing down at it with your mouth open and ...
3 Members Striptease
Whipping off your pants and getting down to it straight away can be practical but also clumsy – especially if you’re wearing skin tight jeans. There are few elegant ways of getting out ...
20 Members Submission
“Get down on your knees and beg for it like the dog you are!” This is perhaps the stereotypical phrase someone will come up with when they’re thinking about submission – but there are s...
1 Members Tantric Sex
Tantric Sex hails from India and the Karma Sutra, and really takes sex into the realms of an art form. Forget the convenient quickie or frantic squirting, you really need to take your t...
3 Members Tattoos
Tattoos have always been used to make a statement. In the past, they’ve been associated with a wide variety of different sub-cultures. They can denote belonging, whether that be to a cl...
14 Members Threesome
If you believe what we’re told by porn, then gays are constantly having threesomes. But with gay, lesbian and trans people generally having a more relaxed attitude to sex than straight...
1 Members Top
This is the active partner in anal sex for men. There are lots of preconceptions about what a top look likes. Porn tells you he’s usually a muscled hulk, but in truth tops come in all s...
0 Members Twinks
The word “twink” is mainly used among gay men to denote a young guy, usually just out of his teens. Definitions vary when it comes to age, but as a rule of thumb you stop being a twink ...
3 Members Uncut Cocks
If you love nothing more than playing with acres of foreskin (well, actually perhaps that’s too much – causing its own problems), then the US is perhaps not the best place for a gay or ...
3 Members Uniforms
Authority can be very sexy, and there are few more direct ways of denoting power than by wearing a uniform, which instantly sets up a power dynamic ripe for sexual exploration. Uniforms...
0 Members Vanilla
We’re not talking about ice cream here or the essence you put into nice little iced buns. “He/she’s vanilla”, isn’t about what they taste like, but what they’re into sexually. The word ...
0 Members Versatile
The best of both worlds, according to some, or lousy both ways, according to others, a versatile sexual partner is happy being either a top or a bottom. He switches depending on their m...
3 Members Voyeurism
The voyeur gets his or her thrill from watching other people get down to sex, and their pleasure is heightened when their watching is done in secret. You have to be careful with this on...
11 Members WWM
A threesome with two women and a man is a great way to mix things up and add some unexpected excitement to any sexual dynamic. It’s assumed that both the women will be bisexual – but wi...
9 Members Watersports
No, we’re not talking a sedate day’s boating along the picturesque local river or an afternoon’s water skiing - as heterosexual people frequently assume when they hear this term - leadi...
9 Members Wax Play
A well aimed bit of hot wax dropped on your partner’s body can really heighten the intensity at those crucial moments. Choose your candles carefully and the range you drop the wax from:...
3 Members Wet Clothes
Sex – at least when it’s done properly – gets messy. Take full precautions by jumping into a wet suit and diving right in! Well, perhaps that’s a little extreme – though there are certa...
12 Members Women's Lingerie
The term is self-explanatory: knickers, bras, fancy pants, suspenders: anything that a lady wears as an under garment. It’s how you incorporate it into your sex life that matters. This ...
5 Members Younger Sex Partners
Only boring, conservative tradition says that people should have partners who are the same age as them. LGBT people have always broken the rules here. And what’s not to love about youth...

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