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There's always a fun time to be had at Cubbyhole. This longtime gay Village local has everything. Friendly and welcoming staff, a jukebox, free popcorn, theme nights, half-price drink specials and in-your-face decor. You'll never want to leave...
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Nowhere still has that NYC dive bar feel, which some say is missed in a gentrified city like New York. Still, Nowhere is attitude-free with a lively, mixed lesbian/gay clientele and you'll find the happy-hour and theme nights during the week are popular but not so overcrowded you'll end up spilling your drink.
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The people behind Barracuda Bar and Elmo Restaurant bring you Industry. Voted New York's best gay bar, Industry is spacious, industrial and popular with mostly an after-work crowd. The nightly happy-hour isn't to be missed!
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For a fun night out with friends, this classic gay bar located in Chelsea has it all. A great combination of cozy sofas, excellent drag shows and no-attitude, friendly bartenders will have you coming back for more.
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Poppers Aroma yes?/no?
Hey guys,
I wanted to ask what do you think about Poppers Aromas?
I have the experience that poppers will often use from 40+.
Is there a reason for this?
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happygolucky Hey. I used to do poppers in my 20's before amyl nitrate was banned, then I couldn't anymore as I got stupidly insane headaches after. I know a lot of guys that use them though, doesn't bother me personally- but it does put me off a bit, mainly cuz the smell makes me sick. Hey. I used to do poppers in my 20's before amyl nitrate was banned, then I couldn't anymore as I got stupidly insane headaches after. I know a lot of guys that use them though, doesn't bother me personally- but it does put me off a bit, mainly cuz the smell makes me sick.
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Men seeking Men in New York

Making the pilgrimage to the Big Queer Apple has been a right of passage for every east coast-dwelling baby dyke or twink. There are tons of queer places throughout the 5 boroughs, but even if you stay in Manhattan for the rest of your life you’ll always find something (or someone) to do.

San Francisco might be home to the first gay bars, but NYC gave birth to the gay liberation movement. The infamous Stonewall riots happened in 1969 at the Stonewall Inn. It’s a safe bet that the Stonewall Inn is the only U.S. National Historical Landmark that houses weekly drag shows. During the day there’s some dinosaurs at the bar and the outside is a popular photo op for tourists around the world, but at night the go-go boys serving shots are let loose across both floors of this historical hot spot.

There are several Gayborhoods throughout Manhattan, but Greenwich Village is so well-known, even buff closeted farm boys from Iowa know about it. With a name like the Cubbyhole you would think this place would be jammed packed with beefy Bears and cuddly Cubs, but this bar is actually known as a lesbian hangout. However, their yard sale meets undergrad art school project decor brings in an eclectic clientele. The Cubbyhole is cheap, unpretentious and known as the gay Cheers.

If you ever watched Coyote Ugly and wished all of the women were replaced by hunky guys, your prayers have been answered. Flaming Saddles Saloon in Hell’s Kitchen is a country themed bar where even the most snobbish of club kids join in on a line dance or two. It doesn’t matter if the closest thing to country music you listen to is new Taylor Swift, Flaming Saddles Saloon is a taste of the west in the city. You might even run into that closeted farm boy from Iowa. If boys aren’t your thing, but fresh meat is, Henrietta Hudson is a place where you can find a lot of out of town and recently out girl-next-door-types willing to swap kissing tips on the make out couches throughout the bar.

NYC Pride is massive. Millions of people flock to NYC for Pride on the last weekend in June. If you’re coming from out of the five boroughs, you need to book your hotel way in advance (you should have booked it last week). You can stay in the heart of the city at The Out; a gay resort in Hell’s Kitchen, or if you’re looking for a total party vibe, stay at one of the many resorts on Fire Island, which has been a gay paradise for decades. There are no cars allowed on the island, but it’s worth the 1.5 hour train and ferry ride to partake in gay bingo or drag queen luau parties.

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