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I like just hanging out together, get along easily, both are honest with each other, can communicate/talk about anything, strong passion, both affectionate, I love how he lets me beat him up when we play fight, I love his lips and the faces he makes, I love when he says "yes dear" when I'm b-bitching about something, I love how he's patient, and I love how he is neat and clean.
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Can real love be found? I have searched and am yet to get one...
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Dane_Haas Yes.
You just have to be open to it, most people aren't. Someone messages you and they could be the one but you see a flaw about them you're not exactly happy about, like they're not thin, muscular, sexy or pretty enough, and you loose out. Society has made you believe that only beauty is worth More… falling in love with. Truth is you're not finding love because you're shallow or you're looking in the wrong places.
You want to find real love? Put aside society and look less for beauty and more for personality, because in the end looks aren't important, it's what's inside that counts. You want to have an overly beautiful person where the only thing in common is staring at each other with barely any conversations? or a lifetime with someone who's attractive but not a super model who you connect with and have lots in common with?
Personally I choose the second one, because I love a good conversation that lasts through the night, with laughter and good company. Someone who knows more about my personality then what I look like or have in my pants. Those are the relationships worth having, that's real love.
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Chicago is the nation’s third largest city and it serves as a hub for LGBT life in the Midwest. Even though the Cubs haven’t won a World Series since 1908, you won’t strike out when it comes to hooking up with a Windy City hottie.

Most queer life happens in two neighborhoods: Lakeview (a.k.a. Boystown) and Andersonville, but like most modern metro cities, LGBT-friendly places are popping up in other neighborhoods as well. Boystown, as the name suggests is where you’ll find Chicago’s eligible bachelors. Sidetrack is one of the busiest gay clubs in Chicago. They claim that they sell the most vodka in the country, and their rooftop beer garden is always packed in the summer. Roscoe’s is Chi-Town’s other gay bar heavyweight. Roscoe’s has a more youthful scene (*cough* twinks), but their drag shows are some of the best in the city hands down. If you have some energy to burn after bar hopping on Halsted and you’re willing to brave the cold by standing in a long line, Hydrate is an after hours dance club where House music and remixes blare through pounding speakers until 4 am.

The Closet is a lesbian hangout in Boystown that stays open after hours (Until 5 am on Saturdays!). It’s laid back and the bartenders act like they’ve known you for years even if you just stumbled upon the place a minute ago. The girl scene in Chicago is a lot like LA and New York, because pop up parties for queer women and non-binary folks are a big thing. One of the larger pop up events is Formerly Known As (FKA to locals); a trans* inclusive queer party on the second Friday of the month in Uptown at Big Chicks, which is predominantly a Bear bar.

Berlin is one of those places where you can let your freak flag fly. Established in the ‘80s, Berlin still has that new wave industrial feel to it. Probably because the crowd is a mixture of goths and gays (or gay goths), but it really is a bar that welcomes everyone who is a little off-kilter and enjoys listening to music that you can’t hear at a Top 40 Remix club.

Chicago’s Pride festival has been going strong for almost 50 years! The festival happens on the third weekend in June and the huge parade strolls through the streets a week later. Last year, over 850,000 people flooded the streets during just the parade and 200 individual groups marched. In July, Chicago hosts Windy City Black Pride to celebrate LGBT people of color.

Chicago is a city with blistering wind most of the year, but the LGBT scene in Chicago is hot enough to keep you warm even in the dead of winter.

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