I have an amazingly positive attitude concerning my health; more-so because I've had HIV/AIDS for 2/3rd's of my life (I sero-converted in 1979, in San Francisco) and am still going strong. I have a bit of PTSD. I lost there sets of friends: NYC; SF; and NYC again. I spend my days writing and would pay for my limited graciousness with my friends (if I had any) while still trying to live on SSDI. I am a creative sort, after all...! I write fiction in all formats: short stories; novellas; novels; Horror, Horror, Horror; Dark Fiction; Sci-Fi; Gay; Historical Literature; Magical-Realism Fiction…various. I have a 8-year old dog and a 17 y.o. feral cat. I like how that damn'd dawg finds ways to play "Stomp the Cat", and visa versa. Seattle is a hard city for PWA and someone on SSDI, but I would like to be in a loving relationship again with a Poz, H/WP man; a man with an equal variety of interests and intelligence. I don't need anyone to ‘complete' me.' I'm NOT looking to date someone older or too much younger. I'm sorry if that offends; not my intention; I just want clarity in my 'likes.' You ‘must' have a handle on you OWN problems, and NOT just hand it over to me; I've got enough of my own stuffed in the dungeon downstairs, right behind the boiler. I do NOT want a part-time partner who fits their emotional life in and around their professional life (been there, done that), but someone who has their own interests that may cross into mine, but not necessarily ALL of them. I've been living as a SGM for long enough to develop my own interests...It's all part of one large puzzle with intricate pieces. Looking for someone I can wake up in bed with - even if we did not have sex (of any kind) and be glad I'm with him. I'm really a Renaissance Man: a Romantic (in all the ways that is a good thing); very creative; and I like a man who knows what the word "monogamy" means when he's in a relationship. Then: Look me square in the eye and you'll see all you EVER need to see

Love & Relationships45 to 65 years ● 25km around USA, King 8 years ago

I am a 76 years young male, from southern European background, considered handsome, fit every where needed, and slim with a smooth body. I am looking for a very special friendship complimented with a vibrant and passionate sexual component, with a masculine man in his very late 40s and older. Please respect my age preference.

I am well educated, 5' 7", 145 lbs, 32" waist, very smooth body and nature provided me well. I am located east of Toronto, in Canada. Although I do not post a picture, I will be able to show you what I look like. I am undoubtedly confident that my looks will not be disappointing.

Making Love should be magic in Paradise, in a combination of mind, heart and body, all merged in perfect harmony. I love sex, a lot, but it is so much better when you have it with love.

After having read the above, please allow me to summarize facts that may be of interest to you:

  • I do not want to marry you; I want to share you and be a part of you
  • I do not want to move in with you; I only want to know that you are there
  • I do not want to enslave your heart; I only want to be embraced by it
  • I do not want to run your life; I only want to nourish it
  • I do not want to change you; I want to learn from you
  • I will not be your slave; and you will not be my master
  • I do not want your money; I have my own
  • I do not want a husband; I want a lover and a best friend
  • I do not want to hinder your freedom; I want to help you to value it
  • If you are sad and unhappy I want to be you joy
  • If you feel lonely, I want you to know that I exist.
  • If you are married I understand your need without judgment---you already made that judgment and it was ***ful enough.
  • If a 3rd person enriches your relationship, I will believe in "Polyamory."
  • If you ask me if I want to "F***," I will candidly say that I want to make love.
  • If you ONLY seek a picture, you will miss the "person; if you seek the "the person" you will get the whole and real picture.

    We are all on this site because we miss something. And being judged is not part of it. Values, truth and correctness are all social constructs---straight, gay, closet, out; single, married, partnered or committed. Who gives a damn? Just be a good person! If you are still interested, I would welcome your message. Maybe I will find my magic.

Love & Relationships60 to 85 years ● 50km around Canada, Ajax one year ago

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