So confused not sure what you do when you're not sure please advise me

[Keneata]

I deep inside have known that I'm gay nobody knows it in my family or friends they would probably judge be very cruel hateful I just don't know but I do know did I have been gay her very long time I love putting stuff in my ass I have for a long time I Believe I Can c6 out my ass at the same time as I Cum out of my penis it is almost natural but I don't want my family and Friends to banish any thoughts on the matter please tell me I'm so confused but definitely gay

[Skeptic]

Yep- sounds like you're gay. Its unfortunate that you feel you cant be open about it without concerns over being shamed by family/friends who are used to expecting you to be something else.

I've been bi, but mostly with men. I find more satisfaction with men but making a woman feel satisfied, even when I'm not, has often felt like the expected thing to do.

As a side note, many people who are bi or gay naturally carry themselves with a masculine or mostly-masculine manner. Like myself. That way I avoid most of the stigma generated by ignorant "hetros" while still being me, and still getting to enjoy sex with other men- which is not as often as I'd like.