Dicks, Wangers, Schlongs, One-eyed-monsters, there are endless names for it, but it’s the love of it – using it, or being used by it – that all gay men have in common. The penis is absolutely everywhere: dildos used by lesbians and trans people are even shaped like them. Are all gay men obsessed with the size of it? The bigger the better? There are, of course, some gay men who (believe it or not) love small ones, but generally speaking, to own up to having a chipolata between your legs is akin to having leprosy for a gay man.
This is certainly one of the most popular scenarios in gay male porn: the strapping coach putting the willing student through his paces after a sweaty game of soccer. It’s a typical high school fantasy - and not just the preserve of gay men: how about that hot lady hockey teacher of your adolescent dreams? In adult life, thanks to gay gyms (which frequently double up as saunas), you can make these locker rooms fantasies realities. If you’re in a non-gay space be cautious and make sure your advances are welcome. Even if you can’t touch, you can still look, of course - discreetly though.
Silk fetishes are as old as time, and people often turn their noses up at them – but for some the pungent aroma and extravagant smooth feeling of silk is the most sexy thing they can think of. It blasts them into absolute ecstasy. Whether it’s sniffing silk like a greedy, starving pig in a trough, using a piece of silk as a blindfold or a gag, or spunking a generous load into a layer of silk after a good hour on the gym running machine wearing a silk headband, there are any number of inventive uses for those little things we whip onto our bodies at the start of the day.