We all love it hot and dripping. But if you really want to turn up the heat, explore the scorchio scenarios of Wax Play. This key part of BDSM involves melting and then dripping candle wax on to the body. Whenever one plays with fire there are of course risks. However, the pain/pleasure dividends can be intense and one of a kind. Not deterred? Great. Reach for the matches and reignite the dying embers of your passion.
The great thing about water is that other people can’t see what you’re getting up to beneath the surface. There’s something about the sea crashing against your quivering thighs which brings you closer to nature, allowing you to explore that primitive side and any new number of different movements and sensations. Needless to say, safety should be a consideration here: don’t get out of your depth in some dark hidden lake. Baths and swimming pools (preferably private) are perhaps the obvious places to start – and those hot tub parties on sweltering days can get particularly lively.