FWB gay & bi?

[LowDown]

You're a gay man that's breaking in a bi-curious man. The bi guy isn't out and won't commit to a relationship other than discrete sex. They see each other several times throughout the week, it's pretty much based on sex and that's it. They agreed on this arrangement from the start, the gay figured he get the bi to commit, but the bi is happy with the current situation and still wants their regular playtime. The gay is pressuring the bi to be in an actual relationship. Both agree the sex is mind blowing, however that's all they know. Thoughts or opinions...

[Deleted Member]

Shouldn't pressure anyone to go beyond what they're comfortable with. Let it happen naturally, or not at all. That's point number one.
Point number two is this : it is incredibly fucking arrogant of the gay guy to assume that the bi guy isn't really bi, but a closet gay. This is bi erasure; the bi guy is in a dilemma :the sex is so good he doesn't want to give the other guy up, but he's being belittled and told he's inauthentic, so he might feel like telling the gay guy to go fuck himself and see if that's just as good.

[Showerman]

On 11/29/2020 at 11:39 PM, LowDown said:

You're a gay man that's breaking in a bi-curious man. The bi guy isn't out and won't commit to a relationship other than discrete sex. They see each other several times throughout the week, it's pretty much based on sex and that's it. They agreed on this arrangement from the start, the gay figured he get the bi to commit, but the bi is happy with the current situation and still wants their regular playtime. The gay is pressuring the bi to be in an actual relationship. Both agree the sex is mind blowing, however that's all they know. Thoughts or opinions...

You can’t turn someone gay, straight or bi. Accept the agreement. Don’t destroy people’s lives by not being true to yourself in the first place. 

[LowDown]

Just to be clear and honest. This was a somewhat  real situation. The 2 parties (I'm the bi) did have multiple discussions with someone, but no contact has been made. Still haven't found that release yet. Thanks for your feedback!

[MckyBruce]

Sound beautiful

[ballparkdogg]

no one pressures you into a relationship you don't feel comfortable with.