Breath Play

Take My Breath! XO

Are you a gasper? We don’t mean someone who gasps in delight when presented with a mammoth mouthful of man meat. Because that’s all of us. No. A gasper is a guy who indulges in Breath Play. Otherwise known as erotic asphyxiation. This is the deliberate restriction of oxygen to heighten sexual arousal. Breath Play is at the extreme end of the BDSM spectrum. And it carries grave risks. But the science behind it means it can also deliver unparalleled sexual gratification. Take a deep breath and read on.

We can trace it back to the 17th century. And the gallows. Droves taking a nice outing to watch criminals being hanged observed a most intriguing phenomenon. Those hanging from ropes sported not inconsiderable erections. Moreover, some of them even shot their loads as they took their final frantic gasps. What a way to go. Consequently, some enterprising doctors began to consider the link between Breath Play and impotence.

When we’re deprived of breath, we react by releasing hormones. These include adrenaline and endorphins. And these heighten sexual stimulation. In Breath Play, you'll feel light-headed. Because the oxygen supply to the brain is restricted. This is potentially very dangerous. Even fatal. But can also give a massive lift to sexual stimulation.

Choking is probably the best-known type of Gay Breath Play. Indeed, porn flicks featuring it receive thousands of clicks. However, there are other ways to practice it. Firstly, at the tamer end of the spectrum, your other half may instruct you to breathe in a certain way. To follow a set pattern. And the turn-on here is often in receiving those commands. Secondly, your lover may cover your mouth or nose. With his hands. Or even a hood or gas mask. And thirdly, there’s the hardcore end of Gay Breath Play. Up for being dunked and despunked in water? Or being neatly parcelled up like supermarket shopping with a plastic bag over your head? It happens. But safety is paramount.

There’s no absolutely safe way to practice this form of BDSM. So, you must be exceptionally cautious. Three hard and fast rules apply. Firstly, take it slowly and carefully. Very carefully. Less is always more. Your goal is to get your kinky kicks while minimising danger. Secondly, consent is vital. As is trust. And communication. And a safe word. Thirdly, stop immediately when you see signs of danger. These include coughing, numbness and limp muscles. However, never allow things to reach this point. Ready to grasp a gasper? Learn how to enjoy Breath Play safely by connecting on Gays.com.