Late in life lesbians

[Deleted Member]

Hi there

So, yes, I came out late in life, due to my homophobic upbringing. So, I wonder, if you’re one of those lesbians who are against dating bisexuals, are you also against dating lesbians who came out late in life?

[Hanna_O'Raey]

Not at all, I think depending on your upbringing, location & social circle it is still difficult to come out - some of us find it easy whilst others still struggle. It is sometimes more common for young girls to come out because they 'think' they are lesbian or just want to give it a try - then go and break your ***y heart and decide they are interested in boys again (no I'm not bitter :-). I think a woman later in life has a little more life experience and is comfortable with how she feels and her own feelings. Dating a later in life lesbian wouldn't bother at all.