I am bookish but playful, when asked what I'm looking for from a site, a date, being approached in public by someone I find attractive...I think I know how to answer but the reality is that what I want is usually dictated by something unexpected which someone else says or does and it utterly floors me and throws former expectations to the wind and I spend the next few weeks catching up with this other person in this new relationship before realising, Sheise, I'm falling in love with this person who has already declared themselves for me and the bravery alone likely makes me unworthy of this exception human being...but he's so beautiful and is great conversation so I've got to see where this this adventure wants to take us...