Body & Mind

Most of us would probably prefer a larger dick if we could have one. So, from cock pumps to jelqing, Alex Hopkins shares real ways to increase your size, plus some sneaky non-invasive penis enlargement tips and tricks. Just what lengths would you go to boost your cock size and make your dick look bi

Loneliness is epidemic in the gay community, with queer people far more likely than heterosexuals to commit ***. Are you gay and lonely? From finding your tribe to discovering life purpose, Calvin Holbrook offers 10 ways to fight isolation and start to feel included and loved. 'I don

Talking about depression is tough – particularly for members of the LGBTQ community. Indeed, a recent UK survey found that only a third of gay men would talk openly about their mental health issues. So, how should you go about dealing with depression with a new partner? According to the

As gay men, many of us are familiar with anal douching, but that doesn't mean we necessarily wanna chat about it over lunch. However, if you want to learn how to anal douche correctly and safely, then Alex Hopkins has prepared this handy guide... Gay men are refreshingly open about their

Planning on getting fit for 2023? If you’ve joined the gym or classes in the past but have become disillusioned with your results, read on. Personal trainer Arash Nassir-Pour shares his getting-in-shape secrets – and it's all about preparation and so-called SMART goals. Whenever I work with

The term 'HIV undetectable' is one familiar with most of us in the LGBTQ+ community, but it’s also often misunderstood. Calvin Holbrook explains what it means and explores how another expression, 'u=u' or 'undetectable equals untransmittable', can be used to help to fight HIV stigma. Adv

Disclosing a positive HIV status to a friend, family member or lover is usually tricky. Alex Hopkins has seven suggestions on how we can make coming out as HIV-positive that bit easier. Coming out as HIV-positive or being poz is an experience unlike any other, and comparisons with comin

From disclosure issues to medication to stigma, freelance writer David Duran shares his story of the modern day realities of living with HIV. Being involved within the HIV/AIDS community, each time I spend time with friends and colleagues who are long-term survivors, I always take a few mom

No relationship is perfect. However, any relationship that makes you feel unsafe, sad, and makes you compromise with your self-respect is undoubtedly not a relationship you should be in. ____________________________________________ADVERTISEMENT_________ A toxic relationship is when one or

The gay gym is, for many a man, as essential to life as sex itself. Indeed, the two are often integrally related. Here are our six tips on using the gym to attract a guy. 1: Pulsating pecs What will be the first thing in your sights down the gay gym? All those perfect pecs, of course.

Since the Do It London HIV prevention program began in 2015, new transmissions of HIV among men who have sex with men (MSM) have fallen sharply. What is happening? Alex Hopkins speaks to Paul Steinberg, Lead Commissioner, of this flagship campaign. What is Do It London? Do It London i

Despite the increase in gender fluidity across society, many guys still feel uncomfortable talking about what they put on their face. We take a look at the changing attitudes towards male grooming and makeup for men and asked celebrity hairdresser turned beauty expert, Steven Smith his top picks of

In the wake of the allegations against Harvey Weinstein and Kevin Spacey, Alex Hopkins speaks to gay men about their experiences of sexual harassment. Gay bars and clubs are often highly-charged sexual spaces: half-naked go-go dancers, topless barmen, men-only cruise bars and saunas. In such

Gay men are no strangers to cosmetic surgery - just look at the new trend for anal botox! Alex Hopkins speaks to guys who have had Botox, fillers – and more. What are the options available – and what results can you expect? James Carpenter, 45, is a receptionist and one of the thousands

Abs are the holy grail in the gay world – and judging by the photos in gay magazines, we all have them, don’t we? The truth is that a lifetime of counting calories, cutting carbs and alcohol – isn't sustainable for many. You have a choice: you can simply accept your body, or reach for the quick fix:

Sex is everywhere in gay life. If you believe all what you read, men are at it 24/7. But some people, believe it or not, choose to abstain from sex. What are the reasons behind this? Alex Hopkins at Gays.com speaks to one gay man who turned his back on the boudoir. Tough decision S

Encountering a magnificent Prince Albert can be enough to make some gay men’s eyes water – quite literally. If you’re brave enough to consider getting a bolt through your cock, what options are open to you – and how much *** and pleasure should you expect? Gays.com takes an unsparing look at genita

Protein powders are big business and beloved by gay guys – but they’re also a minefield with so many out there on the market. If you're about to embark on a fitness regime using protein shakes, Alex Hopkins looks at some of the different types of shakes out there. The Whey to go Whey is

There’s no denying that cocks come in all shapes and sizes, but whether you’ve got a chipolata or tonsil twister, all beef bayonets work in the same way - and without the *** pumping, you can forget a good pounding. So how do you avoid the ultimate shame of not being able to perform? Gays.com take

Male pattern baldness terrifies many gay men. But it can be treated if caught early enough, as Alex Hopkins found out. Guys say so much with their hair (or lack of it), and for those of us who lose our hair, the shaven-headed look is perhaps the easiest option. Well, it’s either that or spor

Alex Hopkins speaks to gay men in their 60s. How are they navigating the financial and emotional challenges of retirement, and what options are open to them? “Old age ain’t no place for Sissies,” Ian Stewart, age 66, tells me, with a mischievous sparkle in his eyes. Ian is quoting his all-ti

It’s no surprise that depression is prevalent among gay men. Alex Hopkins looks at the secrets and shame gay men often carry from childhood into adulthood. How do we deal with this to build a coherent and positive future? I remember the moment vividly. I was lying on my bed, alone in my room

Gay muscle cam guys have carved out a space that mixes fitness, charisma, and desire in a way that’s unique in the world of live-streamed adult entertainment. Watching muscular men flex and engage in intimate, steamy interactions on live cam can be a sensual thrill. Whether you appreciate the artist

Will the next generation of young gay men live in a world where HIV is a thing of the past? It sounds like a dream – but it could well be achievable. Here are nine ways we can improve HIV prevention Ending HIV transmission 1: more testing Testing for HIV is the first and most vital