I used to only date guys who were about my age. Guys over 35 didn't even have to write to me - they didn't have a chance anyway. In the meantime, however, my sex dating behavior has changed significantly: I am more and more into men who are significantly older than me. Gray hair is suddenly no no-go - but extremely sexy.
Daddy issues are often equated with a father complex. According to various psychology guides, gay men who had problems with their parents and especially with their father later feel attracted to older men in particular. But is that true? The relationship with my father was never a problem - but I still like gay daddies.
While a lot of my friends continue to go for young twinks, I'm almost exclusively into mature men. I have already adjusted the search settings in my GAUDI dating profile accordingly: Gay Daddys Welcome! And after a few successful sex adventures with attractive over-40s from my area, I can report: Sugar daddies simply have more to offer. They are the more exciting conversationalists, the better cooks, the hotter lovers. They know what they want and more importantly what they want in bed. While the sex stories with young guys were sometimes just an uncreative in-out, my sex dates with older men are much more intense and passionate. Having sex with a gay daddy was the first time I felt like I could really let myself go.
When I think of Gay Daddy, I think of Twink. When I think of a Twink, I think of a Gay Daddy. Gay daddy issues or not, this dynamic has long been one of the most popular in the gay scene and there's no sign of regression. While the roles have certainly evolved from stereotype-fueled power dynamics to more stable daddy-boy relationships, the idea behind the relationship has constantly remained the same. Big spoon and small spoon, older and younger, daddy and twink. There's no way around it.
Numerous examples from the celebrity world show that a large age difference can work in relationships: there is a 15-year age difference between Elton John and husband David Furnish, and more than 20 years between high diver Tom Dailey and partner Dustin Lance Black. But that's nothing compared to the gay relationship of US star Liberace, who died in the 1980s. The entertainer was a whopping 48 years older than his then-boyfriend Scott Thompson.
Why am I suddenly so keen on daddies? Good question. I think I just want someone by my side that I can rely on 100 percent and - stupid as it sounds - I can look up to in a way. I'm not interested in pubescent 19-year-olds who are in a chronic phase of self-discovery and are constantly broke. I want someone who has both feet firmly planted in life and who knows exactly where they are going. Professional success instead of a six-pack. Solid life experience instead of wild party nights. I stand by it: I don't want a twink in bed. I want a gay daddy.
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