Sex, Dating & Love

Who hasn’t, at some point, had fantasies about being controlled or controlling someone else? The queer scene is full of opportunities for those into gay bondage and BDSM – but how do you start exploring your kinkier side? This guide from HairyHiker will kick you into shape! Have you ever

Most of us in the queer community label ourselves as either top, bottom or vers. But what if you don't identify with any of these positions? What if you don't enjoy anal sex at all? Welcome to the world of the gay side – and it can make dating complicated. Alex Hopkins spoke with men who identify as

If you have a taste for cum, you may already know what felching is. Alex Hopkins explores the definition of this kinky fetish and explores ways for you to practise it as safely as possible. Some sexual preferences are like Marmite. You either love them or you loathe them. They either ge

Wondering how to use a cock ring properly? Alex Hopkins shows you how to maximize your meat without damaging your dong. Plus, learn how to create your own homemade cock ring. Even the self-professed sex machines among us gay men need some support keeping rock solid from time to time. Co

Queer culture often equates youth with beauty. However, things are changing; mature men are becoming increasingly desired. Welcome the rise of the silver daddy! Alex Hopkins chats to some silver daddies and their admirers to find out more about being gray and gorgeous... 'Nobody loves a fai

Is big always better? For some, when it comes to dick size they won't consider anything less than XXL! Alex Hopkins chatted to three size queens about why they will only play with well endowed guys. If you didn't know the meaning of size queen, you will after reading this! The bigger the

If you believe everything you see in porn, sex is always hot and perfectly synchronized. However, as we all know, the reality is usually different. We take a tongue-in-cheek look at seven awkward sex moments. How many have you had? Watching too much porn can give you a distorted view of

Bored of just bashing one out? Wanking gets repetitive, so why not shake-up your solo jerking off sessions? As May is Masturbation Month, Alex Hopkins suggests 12 male masturbation techniques and tricks that will lead to stronger, longer-lasting and more exciting orgasms! As pivotal mome

For us men, connecting online and through free gay dating apps has never been easier. But which are the best applications out there for meeting other guys? From Gaudi to Grindr, from Recon to Romeo, here are the top 10 gay chat apps that we recommend. The gay dating landscape has change

Sex with a gay daddy: A big age difference of ten or twenty years is not uncommon in the gay world. More and more often, I find myself looking up at men who, by age, could easily be my father. What does that even mean? I used to only date guys who were about my age. Guys over 35 didn't even

Being in a long-distance gay relationship comes with unique challenges. Alex Hopkins shares seven ways you and your man can keep the flame alive while you're physically apart. Whether you've been in one yourself or only heard about them from a friend, everyone knows making long-distance rel

Gay men traditionally have more non-monogamous relationships than their hetero counterparts, but would you be up for a gay throuple? Alex Hopkins chats to one gay trio in the UK about how they negotiate their relationship – and the six rules the follow to make it work... Fancy doubling y

Every relationship needs a regular check-up. What can be improved? Where do you go from here? Or maybe there's too much mileage on the clock? Here are six pieces of relationship advice so you can fine-tune your emotional engine to get the best out of your partnership. Like all relationships

The queer community stereotype power bottoms as being totally subs in the sack. In reality, PBs usually take charge during sex; playing a bossy and dominant role to get the dick they want. Indeed, as Alex Hopkins explains, the real definition and meaning of being a power bottom is much more nuanced.

Have you ever looked at long-term gay couples and wondered just how they manage to keep things going? Alex Hopkins spoke to gay men to discover the secrets to their longevity. The result? Six gay couple goals to incorporate into your relationship to keep it healthy and happy. I've often loo

Dating shouldn't be a chore, it should be fun. So, from setting boundaries from staying sex-free on the first date (yes, really), follow our 12 gay dating tips and you’ll be lining up Mr Right in no time at all. It's all the dating advice you'll ever need. A lot of us single gay guys see

What is it that attracts us gay guys to older or younger men? Is it the youthful vitality of younger guys or the maturity, and wisdom of someone older? Let's explore gay age gap relationships... I'm a gay guy who is attracted to younger guys: there I've admitted it. I'm quite open about it,

As it's International Fetish Day on 20 January, what better time to take a look at some of the most popular gay kinks and fetishes on the scene. Kink-meister Alex Hopkins lists his Top 10 – from piercings to pup play, there's something for all. What's your top kink? We gays have a long

Are you planning on being a bottom for the first time but worried about being getting fucked? From douching to diet, these 11 butt-bangin' tips from Alex Hopkins will show you how to prepare for anal sex. Lube at the ready! Anal sex is a rite of passage for gay men. But getting your prec

Have a fantasy about getting wet 'n' wild? Gay watersports are more popular than you may think. So, if you want to explore a urine fetish, Alex Hopkins offers up his top tips on how to get started with pissplay and piss kink... Up for some gay watersports? No, we're not talking about a s

If you didn't already know which sexual role your prefer, our Gay Personality Test will reveal how much of a top or bottom you are... plus a whole lot more! Take our quiz, have some fun, and share your answers with your friends! Have you ever wondered how your sexual role is related to y

It's only normal that gay love making will get lacklustre after a while, but shaking things up only takes some experimentation! Alex Hopkins explores seven of the best gay sexual positions to reinvigorate your sex life. Anyone for the Rusty Trombone?! How easy it can be to fall into a st

Call us anal, but we're fussy when it comes to giving – and receiving – a decent gay rimming. Eating ass is intimate, erotic, and a great warm-up for fucking. So, from incorporating stubble to blowing his hole, Alex Hopkins shares seven top tips on how to eat ass like a pro... Remember t

We're pleased to report that the age-old tradition of al fresco queer cruising is alive and well in London – it’s just knowing where to look. Luckily, we know exactly where to look. Discover the city's top outdoor sex spots with our guide to the best gay cruising London has to offer. On