Is my partner being serious?

[Undersexed]

My partner of 50+ years has been critical lately.  Our relationship started on a sleepover when we were around 12.  After watching our Saturday night horror shows we went to bed.  As we were climbing under the covers I noticed that he seemed nervous and unsure of something.  He turned the light out and slid in right beside me…he’s not really a horror movie freak so I just figured he was scared.  Guess you could say I was naive.  We layed there talking in the dark for several minutes, evidently he was mustering up the courage to do something…a few minutes later I felt his shaking hand slip between my legs and he asked if he could do something.  I was surprised but I’ve know him since I was 5 so I told him to go ahead.  He threw the blanket back and I felt his hands on my waist as he pulled  my underwear off.  He pressed himself tightly against me all the while letting his hands roam all over me.  He asked if he should stop touching but I took his hand and pressed it tighter to me and firmly said no.  The next thing I know my cock is in his mouth and I’m thinking that I really liked it.  He stopped and asked me to do him so I slid down and put his cock in my mouth…that’s how it all started.  We were together nearly everyday until we graduated and I enlisted in the service.  After that it was off and on, mainly off because he moved out of state.  About 5 years ago he located me and we managed to meet up.  Needless to say, it started up again but he still lived out of state so we were only able to connect 2-3 times a month which was not enough.  He moved back just as my divorce from my wife was finalized and we’re together most of the time.  Things were going just fine but now he’s criticizing me when we’re in bed.   We had always, always been vocal about what we liked/needed and it was working great until recently.  The first time it happened, we were 69 and by the way he was moving his hips I thought he was having a good time and enjoying it but no…he told me that I was sucking him too ***fully.  I’ve never heard of that one before but I wanted him to feel good so I changed that up.  After that, I was sucking too fast or my lips weren’t fastened tight enough around his shaft or when I bottomed, I was squeezing too tightly with my ass and he didn’t like it…it either hurt or it made him cum too fast.  Pretty sure it didn’t hurt him because there was a river of lube running out of me and he was having no problem thrusting inside of me.  Next one, he said he tasted soap on me and didn’t like that.  We both agreed long ago that if we were going to have sex, which we were having nearly everyday at least twice a day  that we would only use water on our cocks and balls, I don’t like the taste of soap either.  Finally enough was enough and I asked him if there was someone else or if he was getting tired of me…it does happen, I get that but he said no that he was happy and that he loved the sex so I have no clue about what’s going on.  We went back and started watching our videos but again, he seemed to be having a good time.  Sucking too ***fully?  It all seems so petty and I honestly can’t figure it out, am I over reacting?  

 

 

[As****]

15 hours ago, Undersexed said:

My partner of 50+ years has been critical lately.  Our relationship started on a sleepover when we were around 12.  After watching our Saturday night horror shows we went to bed.  As we were climbing under the covers I noticed that he seemed nervous and unsure of something.  He turned the light out and slid in right beside me…he’s not really a horror movie freak so I just figured he was scared.  Guess you could say I was naive.  We layed there talking in the dark for several minutes, evidently he was mustering up the courage to do something…a few minutes later I felt his shaking hand slip between my legs and he asked if he could do something.  I was surprised but I’ve know him since I was 5 so I told him to go ahead.  He threw the blanket back and I felt his hands on my waist as he pulled  my underwear off.  He pressed himself tightly against me all the while letting his hands roam all over me.  He asked if he should stop touching but I took his hand and pressed it tighter to me and firmly said no.  The next thing I know my cock is in his mouth and I’m thinking that I really liked it.  He stopped and asked me to do him so I slid down and put his cock in my mouth…that’s how it all started.  We were together nearly everyday until we graduated and I enlisted in the service.  After that it was off and on, mainly off because he moved out of state.  About 5 years ago he located me and we managed to meet up.  Needless to say, it started up again but he still lived out of state so we were only able to connect 2-3 times a month which was not enough.  He moved back just as my divorce from my wife was finalized and we’re together most of the time.  Things were going just fine but now he’s criticizing me when we’re in bed.   We had always, always been vocal about what we liked/needed and it was working great until recently.  The first time it happened, we were 69 and by the way he was moving his hips I thought he was having a good time and enjoying it but no…he told me that I was sucking him too ***fully.  I’ve never heard of that one before but I wanted him to feel good so I changed that up.  After that, I was sucking too fast or my lips weren’t fastened tight enough around his shaft or when I bottomed, I was squeezing too tightly with my ass and he didn’t like it…it either hurt or it made him cum too fast.  Pretty sure it didn’t hurt him because there was a river of lube running out of me and he was having no problem thrusting inside of me.  Next one, he said he tasted soap on me and didn’t like that.  We both agreed long ago that if we were going to have sex, which we were having nearly everyday at least twice a day  that we would only use water on our cocks and balls, I don’t like the taste of soap either.  Finally enough was enough and I asked him if there was someone else or if he was getting tired of me…it does happen, I get that but he said no that he was happy and that he loved the sex so I have no clue about what’s going on.  We went back and started watching our videos but again, he seemed to be having a good time.  Sucking too ***fully?  It all seems so petty and I honestly can’t figure it out, am I over reacting?  

 

 

Hmm interesting. Sounds like he's sort of confused or just insecure now that he's older? Maybe he's more picky now as to what makes him feel good in his mind? Not too entirely sure. I know with me its i like how it feels 100% (inside someones ass or mouth) or its 100% a no go and ill gladly be vocal about what i don't like. Maybe sit down with him and discuss it?