Best Friend Crush - Love and Romance

[Stephanie_Hupp]

ok, so i need some help here. i have this huge crush on one of my best friends. she has equally huge crushes on two girls she barely even knows (yes, she is a lesbian). i am pretty sure she sees me as a friend, and only a friend. i want to get this off my chest, but i am afraid that it will ruin our friendship. she has been my best friend forever, and i can't lose her because i told her i love her. any advice?

[Kendall_Jacobsen]

this happened to me i fell in love with my best friend and i still am but, i equally did not want to ruin our friend ship so i told her that i needed to talk to her about something really important and personal. so, she said ok and we talked and i slowly got into the topic, i told her that she means the world to me and with out her a part of me would be gone, i think about her all the time and i would do anything for her. she said she understood and i told her that i just want her to know and that i want us to still be FRIENDS nothing more and she understood and now were on the same page

[Jeanie_Baker]

well then you know her tastes. ARe her tastes similar to what you are? If not then she may not feel the same way. We all have different tastes. I think if she really liked you more than a friend she would have already told you. Just a thought!
Or maybe ask her what she sees in you and what type of person does she think would be attracted to you.