Hi, I'm 5'10" with black/brown hair and somewhere in between a skinny and athletic build. I usually weigh around 150 pounds and I enjoy playing video games, watching funny things, martial arts, reading literature that delves into the human condition on some level, and developing stories of my own. At times I'm a citizen of Fantasyland, all too wrapped up in my own thoughts and imaginations, but reality is where the real visceral moments exist and I have a deep appreciation for those experiences. Fantasy only serves to distract me as loneliness and boredom creeps back into our lives, or as a conduit for inspiration when this world doesn't allow my mind to play enough in the halls of creativity. When I'm with people I care about I am extremely attentive though and given the choice, I usually prefer to make the other persons life easier or more enjoyable by thinking of something I can do for them or telling an interesting story. Please don't mistake me for a saint though, that's just for appearances sake... just kidding. I'm just as human as the next guy and I won't deny I have bad days or worse habits, but I identify them, try to understand them, and work to not harm others with them. I have been told I am a great conversationalist because I relate to others easily and admit when others make good arguments even in the face of anger. I hope to have the chance to meet new people, develop friendships and hopefully more while on here, so let's both try not to be shy.
I'm awfully romantic in some ways where just cuddling with my man while lazily surfing Netflix can be a perfect day. There's something profoundly desirable about keeping each other warm with our body heat under a shared blanket, entwined and rubbing the knots and aches out of each other while Ellen dances the news or South Park tickles our funnybones. In short, I'm not dreaming of a series of one night stands, but instead a relationship that can be built off of mutual caring and attraction.
That disclaimer being said, I generally prefer men with slim and athletic body types, and I have a thing for haircuts and style, as long as it looks good on you. I don't have a strong sense of fashion, so I'm flexible on that topic. I think we're all just looking for someone else with the right personality for us though, no matter what you value, so just being yourself is probably going to end up being the sexiest thing you can do.
Lately I've been on a new age diva kick of all sorts. Beyonce- "Halo" usually leads me into some Sara Bareilles- "King of Anything" or "Gravity". Adele usually steps in with "Someone Like You" and Madonna and Gaga sometimes make appearances to lead me away from the sappy love songs finding me at More… Nico Vega with "Beast" and Pretty Reckless rocking out to "Heaven Knows" That's just off the top of my head lol. I'll think of some more and get back to you all after checking some of those out.