Am i really a gay guy ?

[Ashygay]

In high school , most of my straight friends called me gay and most of the gay boys called me straight . I had a few public masturbation with the guys in the stall or tunnels , we had a few pee contests on bars and i was tied naked and cock teased , but that still didn t answered my question

I decided to attend to a private gay party ! I choose a nice guy , told him i never done this before and he was sweet about it , gave me all the time i needed , and so here we where both naked , him with a boner and me not feeling it although man , he was hot ! I cam closer to him , we touched our buts , he tried to kiss e but i felt nothing , i was not going to do it with him . He understood , but i still have a hard on when i see naked guys . So , what s my deal ? am i gay  or not ? why can t i get intimate with a guy ?

[bear403]

You need to meet the right guy and be true to yourself about your feelings and you may be bi.

[Rena_Noel]

There is a spectrum that most of the labels ignore. You like the bodies and cocks of hot guys. That is cool! You like the feelings you get when you are with other men. Great! That particular guy was hot, but there was something missing for you. That is fine. Just because you identify as Gay does not mean you have to do anything with someone you just met 'just because'. Consider that you may be Bi. That is not unusual. Keep in mind you may need more of the mental/phycological connection as well as the hot bod to be with, and need a sapiosexual interaction before the wet physical stuff. It just could have been the circumstances and you might need a more private situation. You do you.

[Dreamboy541962]

that is a good question. Myself, I came at age twelve to another boy of the same age, but what we did wasn't anything more than kiss and fondle each-other's naked bodies. I didn't have my first sexual experience till high school, when my best friend and lover, did anal to me. I can understand your confusion, and all I can say is stick with it and don't let anyone tell you different  about who you are. Only you know yourself and your true feelings. Maybe, the reason you are confused is because you listened to people, who tried to tell you you're straight. Again, only you know who you are in your sexuality. I'm bisexual.

[serpentes]

its not an easy topic to deal with. My first traces of sexual identity appeared in primary school, high school. In high school i was almost sure, but i had a girlfriend, sex with her was nice and pleasant.

I had gay sex in univ, after this i hadnt a girlfriend with a sexual relationship, I hadnt a gay relationship. Maybe study was so absorbing?

[Dreamboy541962]

My firs traces of sexual identity came in high school as well. That was my first experience with anal sex being done to me. During the time I went to college, I had a girlfriend, it was good or as you put it, it was pleasant.  I also fell in love with a twenty-two year old art student. He was handsome all over his body. We had a little sex, but not that much. Now, with the luck I've had with women, I think I should stay with just men. 

[serpentes]

So I assume youre a bi sexual?

What is the age of legal consent in USA - I mean what is the age you can legally have sexual relationship not being afraid of punishment.

Some time ago I wrote it's 21 years to buy alcohol - is it valid?

 

[Bigbiguy48]

On 11/18/2018 at 5:12 AM, Ashygay said:

In high school , most of my straight friends called me gay and most of the gay boys called me straight . I had a few public masturbation with the guys in the stall or tunnels , we had a few pee contests on bars and i was tied naked and cock teased , but that still didn t answered my question

I decided to attend to a private gay party ! I choose a nice guy , told him i never done this before and he was sweet about it , gave me all the time i needed , and so here we where both naked , him with a boner and me not feeling it although man , he was hot ! I cam closer to him , we touched our buts , he tried to kiss e but i felt nothing , i was not going to do it with him . He understood , but i still have a hard on when i see naked guys . So , what s my deal ? am i gay  or not ? why can t i get intimate with a guy ?