What you want, where you want it. . . - Looking for LOVE!!!

[Jo****]

i guess this discussion will cover what you want in a relationship, and where you want to have this relationship.. . . if you want it to romp around the bed, in the middle of nowhere, post it. if you want a loving, caring, not all about sex relationship in michigan, post it. i want to see what others are interested in

[Jo****]

for me, i want a loving, caring, open ear kinda guy, not a skinny twink (nothing is wrong with twinks btw, they're just not for me), probably a medium sized pitch black hair kinda gothic bear. i would love to have a little clearing in the woods of canada or the u.p of michigan. . . someone who loves to be cooked for and loves to cook, someone who loves food, metal, techno, and art. someone who won't hump and dump, but stay for a long relationship. i guess thats it. what do you want?

[Robert_Mendoza]

I want a loving, caring, romantic, good humored, and sweet man. He doesn't have to be 100 percent masculine, but I don't want him to be a flaming queen. He has to be 100 percent monogamous. He has to be able to make me laugh, and like to have fun. He would like anime, video games, clubbing, dinning out, chilling, watching movies--in other words, well rounded. Looks don't matter, but I prefer taller. He would have to have a job and a car, and especially have time for me. He would treat me with respect and love, and he would be close to where I am! It's nice to dream...

[Deleted Member]

No kidding, it's nice to dream, isn't it - we all want the perfect guy with all the boxes ticked, but how much can we do without? I'd Prefer a guy close to my own size and age, who can at least live with my hobbies and interests even if he doenst share them (tho' it would be nice if he shared at least 1 or 2), can tolerate all my shortcomings and lives here on the Island because I dont have the money to travel or the desire to move off-Island. I wouldnt have thought that was too much to ask for, but I havent found him yet. Guess I have to decide what qualifies as the next best thing....

[Deleted Member]

I want my man to be a little bigger and taller(a bit of a bear) then me so i can always cuddle in his arms. A sweet, energetic loving guy. But most important is his ability to take and give sarcasm. We'd live in a cabin in the woods somewhere. He'll teach me how to aim a rifle when we go hunting or how to throw a line when we go fish. A little of an artist would be nice. Yes dreaming is nice.

[Robert_Mendoza]

I change my mind, Eric is right. My guy doesn't have to have all the same interests as me, he just has to respect mine. In reality, I just want someone who loves and respects me, and lives near me. I don't think that's too much to ask either.

[Percy_Watkins_AKA_Le_Donna]

First and foremost...What I want is a man that can deal with the fact that I am a Drag Performer..Somewhat share my musical tastes, and outlooks on life in general..The rest, is a bridge we'll have to cross when we get there...

[Jo****]

This is interesting. I guess we all have a desire for a decent guy and a good relationship. Now all we have to dovis get the perfect guy, then get gay marriage passed in all of USA = )

[Er****]

I don’t think there is such a thing as the perfect man. But it’s possible to get closes to it. 100 percent monogamous. 100% it’s not possible. We would all like it to be true but it’s not. It’s in the human nature to look around and get off with what we can get away with. It’s always been so. There will always be an EX friend, or the internet for chats, live cam’s and meeting sites. One day, they will not be all that he or that you want. Man or woman for that matter, will always wants to see how far they can go and get away with it. IT’S human nature. There are nice guys out there, and I hope that one day I can meet the one that will complete me in all the ways that matter the most. Like the other Eric said maybe we ask for too much. But I don’t think it’s really bad to do so. The dream is that we expect to get it all from the same person. I think we are, all of us, the entire perfect guy; we just have to find the one other guy that thinks the same thing and respect each other.

[Jo****]

That is unfortunantly true. However, I made this discussion kinda just for fun, to fantasize about the future, but there is the sad truth about what you said. Idk hopefully we will all find our love

[Er****]

It's better to have loved and lost then never to have loved at all.
Hopefully, love is there for all of us.
It's wen we give up on love that we can't find it.
It's there we just have to open our self to it. Fantasizing about the future and love keeps us alive. So keep it alive and fantasize.... ;-)

[Robert_Mendoza]

I think there is such a thing as 100 percent monogamy. I know for a fact I would never cheat on my partner in any way shape or form.

[Jo****]

it depends on what cheating means to each partner, at least for me. I consider cheating to be sleeping with someone else. I think watching porn is not cheating. That's just me tho

[Er****]

Then he is a lucky partner. And should be happy to have you. Keep it up... ;-) I hope your dream partner thinks the same way???

[Robert_Mendoza]

Yeah, I don't consider porn as cheating either. Hopefully whoever I end up with will be loyal, because I will always be loyal and dedicated to them and no one else.

[Deleted Member]

Well realistic or not i want a guy that's cool and chill with things. Not the ones that bitch about every little thing...

[Deleted Member]

i like husky guys or muscley guys, not too skinny. i want a meaningful relation ship, but sex is good too and NOT BITCHY. dont like too much drama. in california , napa valley sounds nice

[Deleted Member]

oh, and not too short or tall (it makes it awkward when u try to kiss him standing up)

[Jo****]

Oh ya I forgot no drama for me either. . .

[Da****]

I'd like someone about my height. Cuddling is a must! For me there is nothing better than hanging out with the right person

And I believe love is there for everyone also.

[Deleted Member]

hope ur right

[Deleted Member]

Me too

[Deleted Member]

So do i

[Robert_Mendoza]

Yo tambien

[Deleted Member]

All in favor?