dje Posted January 9, 2019 Posted January 9, 2019 So both my roommate and I are gay men. We moved in together a few months ago which was probably a mistake since we both new feelings were developing. fast forward to now, I still have feelings and he does not. He claims he just shut them off when we moved in because he didn’t want to ruin our friendship. It’s hard for me to not get jealous of him spending time with other gay men. Luckily he has never brought anyone over but I know he’s out meeting guys - which is fine! I’m just struggling to move on. Any suggestions or similar experiences?