Deleted Member Posted May 6, 2011 I'm a very sweet, caring, and affectionate (not clingy) kinda girl. So I show whoever I'm with my romantic side. I'm the old fashioned romancer with flowers and picnics and watching the sunset and looking at the stars at night. I have no problem being romantic to someone else, but when it comes to them showing me affection I get scared of being vulnerable and throw up a wall. My question is...how can i break this wall down without the urge to run from the vulnerability I feel? Am I alone on this or are there more out there with this fear?