Stuart_Johnson_40908 Posted October 3, 2010 Hey guys. Living here in Tallahassee the opportunity to find a gay man who isn't too self absorb, too old, or too young and have no interest in a relationship and really, I mean really looking for a good partner is slim. I may not posses extreme hotness, but I am confident and I know who I really am. What I look for in a partner is someone who likes to be himself and not some self entered jerk. Come on Tally gay men.