Is monogamy realistic in these times? Isn’t it an outdated tool of patriarchy? Gay men have long pioneered new types of relationships. Open relationships abound. And they bring happiness and fulfillment. But Gay Polyamory takes things to another level. This means it’s still widely misunderstood and unfairly judged. Our quick guide to Gay Polyamory shows you what to expect when the maxim is The More the Merrier.
We've all seen the porn flicks. An insatiable bottom being put through his paces by multiple partners in an unbridled fuck fest. The ritual of a Gangbang isn’t for the faint-hearted. We’re talking about a marathon here. Not a sprint. An almost crazed Olympic shafting in which the Bottom is the ultimate vessel. To be used. And abused. And to relish every filthy moment.
Role play is all about spicing up your sex life, giving you the opportunity to inhabit different characters in a vast array or situations. It’s all about the psycho dynamic between two people, and is usually about playing with ideas of power and submission and dominance. Become a willing plumber popping by to fix your partner’s boiler or – so many gay men’s fantasy – the coach and the willing, flexible student. Your costumes can be as simple or extravagant as you like, and it’s up to you how heavy the scene becomes, and plenty of inspiration can be found in BDSM if that’s your thing.