"Before you criticize someone, walk a mile in their shoes – that way, when you criticize them, you are a mile away from them and you have their shoes."
I am very involved in theatre in Northeast Ohio as my avocation. You would think that would be a great place to meet gay men. Wrong! All my straight friends have met their other half in the theatre, but not me.
I am a programmer for a Fortune 200 Company by day.
My home town is Los Angeles and I come from a very large family, most of whom still live out in California, so I go back at least once a year.
I used to have dreams of meeting the right guy, settling down in a little house with two Great Danes and maybe even thinking about adopting kids, but now I still dream about all of that - minus the guy. Not that I wouldn't love to have a man in my life. Just that I've found most gay men to be too superficial to want to take the time to get to know me. But there's nothing that says I can't have all those other things by myself!
I didn't pick a "camp" or "personality" because I don't believe most people can be pigeonholed into just one category.