Male (37) Not single

Fetish & BDSM18 to 65 years ● 500km around USA, James City

Owner/Dom seeking sub candidates for Ownership

I have been an Owner since November, 2011. I am aiming to form a household/family.

If you're a sub who has been looking for an Owner, but hasn't had any luck. Then contact me, I'll see if you're a fit for me.

The household is still in its early stages, the first few of my slaves are soon ready to relocate to me.

This is turning out to be one household that I am very proud of.

One thing to note I have a physical goal for all of my slaves and that is to work on them in the gym and grow them to get as close as they can to being big bulky muscle bears/bulls. As noted in the few pics in the "household goals folder".

I'm a natural alpha dom, socially just an average laid back, easy to get along with guy, but show a sign of submissiveness and it'll go from there.

I'm a chubby muscle mix, hoping to minimize the body fat a bit more and increase the muscle, since I have to work out, then I am going to go for the gold and get as big as I can. *You muscle subs I cruise, the ones looking for muscle Doms, why not consider one who is working on it and part of your service can be to help get him to be bigger than you are...

As for subs here is what I'm looking for: subs for 1 time service, subs for long term repeated service, sex slaves, total control slaves, and total ownership slaves.

Limits must be established before any activity begins. If interested in submitting in any of those ways let me know.

My response to the "Slaves' Bill of Rights":

Its disappointing that things in this lifestyle have sunk to such lows that things like that are required.

I am often ashamed by the behavior of fellow doms. They are usually one of a few things. They have no clue of their role; they have a clue and choose to ignore their responsibilities; they are just in it for kicks or instant gratification; or worse they are in it to prey on and exploit vulnerable subs.

I find such doms despicable and not worth the time of day.

A sub should feel wanted, safe, and useful to their Dom; BUT if they can't answer the following question, then they should not be serving the Dom:

" What is the Dom doing for me?"

It's not a one way street, subs need something from their Dom, for every sub it is not the same.

To me a sub should not need such a bill of rights, because:

  • their Dom should have earned their absolute complete trust
  • their Dom should be performing his role, taking responsibility for the sub and protecting them
  • the Dom should NEVER gain service out of fear, the sub should be taken care of so well that they choose to serve willingly

    This is how I operate. This is how I came to understand my role as a Dom and an Owner.

    To the sub reading this:
    If this is enough to make you at least stop and read the whole thing, message me. Don't be shy. I don't scream, I don't rage, and I don't bite (well not at first heh).

    If I cruised you, that's my way of saying "I'm interested, contact me" without being pushy. If I don't get a response from that I will message directly.

    Also don't be surprised if you get messaged by a fellow sub. Some of mine are anxious to share what they got, and sometimes they decide to go out n hunt for some.

    If you're looking for out of the ordinary and unique situations, or just an Owner who has a different way of doing things from all the ones you've talked to before... message.

Owner/Dom seeking sub candidates for Ownership

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