Deleted Member Posted February 4, 2011 I was in a 7 year relationship with a guy, for the last 2 1/2 years of that relationship I was also hooking up with my best friend, Jamie, who is a girl. I kept telling her that I would one day be with her and find the courage to break up with him. I no longer had feelings for him and I am completely in love with her. About a month ago, he broke up with me. Now I can finally be with Jamie, but now she says that I waited to long and her feelings have changed. She's in this depression stage, like literally has depression and is going to counseling and says that she doesn't even know if we can be friends because she is so hurt. Do I stick with her and try to win her back or do I move on?