Outdoor Sex

A breeze of fresh air

Gay men have a long and cherished relationship with outdoor sex. There’s nothing quite like the thrill of a furtive fumble or indeed full-on thrustathon in the bushes. Gay Outdoor cruising grounds exist the world over. The lure of the orgasm is insurmountable. Whatever the weather, you’ll find guys rambling through woodland or hiding in the dunes in search of prime Rumpleforeskin.

Let’s get the legal bit out of the way first. In the vast majority of places, Gay Outdoor sex comes with a penalty. Indeed, in some parts of the world, it can get you banged up. And not in the way you want. But that’s never stopped guys gathering at places like Hampstead Heath even in the bleak mid-winter. In more liberal countries, police sometimes turn a blind eye. As long as you’re discrete and not waving your chopper at all and sundry. However, you still need to be careful. And not just of the policeman’s baton. Homophobes and criminals target cruising grounds. So have your wits about you and play safe.

A misconception is that Gay Outdoor sex is merely quick fun. And yes it is. Cruising grounds can be magical spaces. Places where we play, explore and escape. But Gay Outdoor frolics can be so much more. Depending on what you want. And what you bring to them. You can find intimacy anywhere. In the most unexpected places. And this includes cruising grounds. Indeed, the most precious memories can be made in the way strangers touch. And hold one another. Moreover, outdoor encounters can be more than fleeting. Be bold. Exchange names. And numbers. You don’t know where this might take you. And that’s part of the excitement.

As long as there are gay men, there will be outdoor places to meet them. Even online hookups haven’t killed the ancient and sacred art of cruising. Check out cruising listings on Gays.com. Arrange to meet a guy for a hot outdoor session. Or become a lone hunter. Do your research and take pot luck. Just dress for the temperature. Thermal underwear isn’t necessarily the hottest look. But neither is frostbite on those vital extremities.