I'm an easy going guy. A chef and writer. I have my own beliefs on many things such as the way we look at each other. You see to me, a great personality is everything, I find it impossible to feel anything more than fleeting attractions based on looks as to me the body is nothing but a shell, the real person is inside. But too often we decide that someone with incredible looks and body must be a really nice person, and are let down when discovering that looks have no bearing on character. To me great looks and a beautiful body are just bonuses that do not make up for personality. Nor does the size of someone's penis, it's about the person not the tools! I'm very spiritual and love simple things, walking in the woods in the rain is a thing of beauty, as is a great landscape view or a butterfly landing on my finger. Guess I'm a bit of a gentle hippy in that respect. I don't do drugs but used to. I'm just looking for a really nice guy that I can love and older or younger is irrelevant!