I prefer older men. No real rhyme or reason for it, I just do. I'm really all over the board. I don't fit well into any one type category, which has its advantages and disadvantages. While a relationship is definitely not a priority, it would be nice at some point. I'm not the type to get into a relationship just for the sake of being in a relationship (and I have zero interest in acquiring a "sugar daddy"). Of course, I'm definitely not against having a little (or a lot) of fun. Sexually, I am aggressive Top in bed, even if this contradicts my personality outside of bed during some moments. This is what I like and it's non-negotiable. If you're not okay with that and aren't that type of guy, we aren't a good sexual or romantic match. Romantically, I hope to one day have a normal monogamous relationship. Guys who are interested in starting a family one day in a stable environment will definitely catch my attention (although that's ideal, not a requirement).
Typically, I tend to go for muscled/beefy older hairy guys, but I do tend to go outside the box on this on occasion. My biggest turn offs are drugs, that whole preppy thing, and alcoholics (don't mind a man who drinks, but if it's consistently drunken stupors every night...). At this point, I want a Partner. Doesn't mean we're going to get partnered or married right away, but I'm looking for someone with that ultimate goal. At this time and for the foreseeable future, I have no interest in hook-ups.
As for my interests? Well, when I am not at work, I write fictional stories for my own amusement (mostly drama, which is odd since my reading material usually falls under sci-fi/horror). Oh, and I love film, but I lean more toward films that actually say something of merit rather than the popcorn-y, bubble-gummy, monster-of-the-day film (unfortunately this type is almost extinct). For my taste in film, feel free to check out my film critic's blog, The Reel Gay Jay, which is currently only available on Facebook (but I'm looking into expanding in the future). I like camping/outdoor stuff. More of an explorer than anything else, I'm most at home in the early morning of an open highway. Closest thing I have to a home.
No cigarette smokers, but cigar smokers skip to the front of the line! Italian Daddies are my main weakness. Mostly attracted to Caucasians and Middle Easterners. Please be over 35 and under 70. I like average, muscular, athletic, or guys with a little extra.
I'd rather not bore you with anything more for now. I tend to ramble.