If you think you can, you can. If you think you can't, then you can't. Life is all what you put your mind too. If you don't mind, then it won't matter--and that goes for the good and the bad!
I am an African-American female. I love family and will do just about anything for anyone, but one of the things I enjoy most for myself is spending time with someone who I can appreciate and who appreciates me. I have found that this feeling come unequavilably from a women rather than a man. I am pretty laid back and suttle. I can be intense once I feel I am connected with the right someone.