I have been " Single " for 6-years after a 15-year long committed ( My part ) relationship, and the ONLY relationship I've EVER been in. WHY did it end ? CHEATING !!! That's why, and I have NO tolerance for it, NONE !! I am now ready, I am spiritually, physically and emotionally " Fit " enough to love again.
I'm outgoing, funny, sharp, witty, caring, compassionate, loving, protective, strong and VERY intense, about myself, FAMILY, life and the one I love. I live life well, and want to live my life with someone amazing. I am currently working-out, looking to get back into shape, and for ME and NO ONE ELSE. I found comfort within my own skin, excepting my flaws ( We ALL have them ) and embracing my best assets and features. I am a College Student and work caring for Mentally Disabled Adults and ailing Elderly. I also am a care taker for my Aunt, whom I love so very much. I am a care taker be heart but, I never take much time for myself, and lately I'm learning to enjoy life more, breath in the air, take a " Pause " to reflect, and give thanks to a higher power for all I've been blessed with.
I believe 1st) Friendship......2nd) Relationship ( Dating ).......and 3rd) Intimacy ( 4-6 Months AFTER Dating ) in order to build a strong connection, and a safe foundation before getting to know each other sexually. I am NOT your average Guy, I have the up most self respect for myself, and I value my morals and live by my expectations of high standards for myself, what I mean is.....I will NOT allow myself to be 2nd to ANYONE nor will I ever neglect my needs and wants, and ALL I want in a relationship is HONESTY and LOVE...now THAT'S it !!! The rest we'll compromise, I mean nothing is/will be perfect, and that's ok but the essentials are key too me.
I would consider myself the " Life " of ANY event, and I do so with NO EFFORT, I'm magnetic you could say....LOL. I am a City boy, and NOT use to getting dirty BUT I am willing to TRY new things, Lord knows I need to. I am a strong personality, I speak the truth and my thought's, and I'm not always diplomatically CORRECT because I don't feel every situation calls for it, let's face the fact's here Gentleman, life's short and F**K if I'm going to keep quiet, I say what I feel and how I feel " If " the time is right, and that's who I am.
I love to cook, clean and yeah...SHOP but, I enjoy most time together ( NOT all the time, personal space and time to ourselves is also key ) I also enjoy time with Friends and Family, but once in a while, I'm usually private, when I'm with others I live it up, have a wonderful time but, when I'm Home, I enjoy my time with my love, that's me all....Oh, and I'm " Out " but discreet, and NOT flaming, though I have my Femme ways, I feel this was important to note this, LOL.
I'm attractive ( So, I've been told ) I am 5ft 8" tall. I am French/Indian/Scottish. What a MIX hah ? LOL So, if interested, let's chat, bye...

To meet an HONEST and FAITHFUL and LOVING Man, and NOT a boy !!! Someone TALLER then me ( 6ft + ) A MANLY Guy, a strong, smart, outgoing, caring person with values, class and who's open too me, able to tell me his feelings and concerns, a Man who's grown-up and ready to love for real.