I'd rather know I'm out than spend all of my time worrying whether or not I'm "in."
Songs that go through my head, almost daily:
"23" by Jimmy Eat World
"The Beautiful Letdown" by Switchfoot
"More Than Fine" by Switchfoot
"Pictures of You" by The Last Goodnight
"Pinch Me" by Barenaked Ladies
"You Get What You Give" by New Radicals
"Someday We'll Know" by New Radicals
"Here It Goes" by Jimmy Eat World
"Pieces" by The Bridges
"Your House" by Jimmy Eat World
"Let Love In" by The Goo Goo Dolls
"Sanctuary" by Utada Hikaru
"Still Alive" by Lisa Miskovsky
"Annie Waits" by Ben Folds
"Falling For the First Time" by Barenaked Ladies
"Steer" by Missy Higgins.
Look them up. They're good stuff.