I am very much a monogamous type in a relationship, and only will date someone who is the same. I show much appreciation for my partner and value someone I can be completely open with, and them with me. I find it important for someone to show respect for their partner in the relationship, and enjoys affections / being affectionate. I don't expect anyone to be perfect, but lovers should adore a level of imperfections in their mate, as well as the wonderful things about them. It's why we "build" together.