First rule: Nothing is constant, everything changes
Second rule: Nothing ever changes
I choose friendships and spirituality over sex anyday. I don't do mindless lust. Big on mindfulness. I'm not yet perfect in the usual sense, but if you don't aim for something you'll never hit anywhere close. Yoga reminds me to breathe, meditation reminds me to shut up every once and a while, and I don't think its wrong to feel euphoric while laying in a tanning bed every once and while.