Stereotypes abound when it comes to hair – and so do sexual fetishes. Some like it long, others very short. But there are no rules here: not all lesbians have a number two crop and not all gay guys have shoulder length hair. The same with colour: fair or dark – you can like either or switch. Ginger guys are very popular among gay men at the moment – but like everything, it’s subject to change. Some gay guys want ultra-butch and associate that with short hair; others want something to long and lush to get tangled in. Some like a smooth body, others want the hairy back of an ape.