Gay people have always had a more relaxed attitude to pornography than heterosexuals. Perhaps it’s to do with people associating porn with secrecy and shame – and the often hidden lives that gays have had to live in the past. And, of course, without sex education in schools it’s often been how we’ve learnt about what to put where. In any case, Gay porn is everywhere now. Stream it online for free, watch it with a lover, tune into some live Cam Sex shows or – best of all in the age of the Smartphone – create your own celluloid masterpiece. The opportunities are endless.
We all love it hot and dripping. But if you really want to turn up the heat, explore the scorchio scenarios of Wax Play. This key part of BDSM involves melting and then dripping candle wax on to the body. Whenever one plays with fire there are of course risks. However, the pain/pleasure dividends can be intense and one of a kind. Not deterred? Great. Reach for the matches and reignite the dying embers of your passion.