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ok...well for those who may not know what's going on...Tara wanted our opinion on various things...one of them asking if we should have a sex group...and well to me it seems like it would be ok to talk about sex...but i do think they're should be an age restriction on there...and it's not really about excluding anyone...it's just that some guys get really explicit...and i don't know how some teens could handle that...sure there might be some that won't be surprised...but i'm pretty sure other will be like "what the fuck???"...and the last thing i would want is for the teens to be scared away with such kind of talk...or traumatized by anything that is said...if anything i guess it could be about sex safety and advice for those who may already be active...but there should absolutely be nobody hitting on each other sexually in this group...but to discuss such fantasies and other sex stuff...i think that should be age restricted...and in another type of group...i don't know what do you guys think???


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Homer_Bozarth
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i agree but there should be a group for those who are under the age of 18 dont you think sweety pie?


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Lance_Jermey
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i also agree as a man of 48 years i have recieved un wanted attention which i have not asked for . plus photos i never would subject any one to on this site .im not a prod .but come on guys be fair this is alovely site but some are out to spoil it. you should have age ristricted for under 18s. i agree homer


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Then I will say goodbye to you all. How the F**K do you learn about sex from those who know if you can't talk about sex "BECAUSE YOUR TOO YOUNG TO UNDERSTAND"!!!! Is that why so many under 16 girls get pregnant????

THis was my last refuge where I could feel safe enough to ask the sort of questions I wanted to know, the sort of things that would keep me out of trouble and free from STD, but you want to take that away like I'm some little child. No matter how you wrap it up Jony making it age restricted IS excluding. Talk can shock, ignorant sex can kill, as can the wrong sort of partner.

Being gay really sucks, being with gay people is even worse than the way st8s can treat you.


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Homer_Bozarth
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wait there a minute Dean. i said i support a group for younger guys like your self sweety. i did not say that i condem youngins like your self from sex acts. i have to say this, Dean has brought up a good point. how will these guys learn if we dont have them join in the discussions. so my question to every one is how do we have a sex chat that welcomes all the young guys as well as the older guys like us?


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Dennis_Mix
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I thought that we were here to help those that have problems and I know we need to keep ourselves on our toes and not to push out the ones that might need our help. so if you want get a way to keep it clean. You can get all the fun and still keeping it clean.

Alfawolf


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Richard_Edwards
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I agree with Dean that there should be no restrictions on age. If you look at the details for this group it says
"I'd like everyone to keep things PG-13"

In a sex group, the details should say something like that there may be explicit and graphic language and do not enter the discussions if you are offended by such language.

Gays are excluded from many things. We do not need more exclusions. Dean makes such a valid point that there are young people that may have explicit questions and they need answers from others who have that knowledge.

Again, NO AGE RESTRICTIONS.


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everbody has made valid comments, but richard edwards is the most valid one of all.
but when one talks of sex, how explicit the content raises a problem, i think the warning is a good idea.
now the other thing that usually creeps in to these discussions, is what experiance every person has had, and how to overcome that problem.
most of us know how dean was not long ago,we all helped him.
so every discussion tends to move away from the topic under discussion.
if i see a person having a differcult time , i tend to take the discussion of the main page and chat via email with them, most of you guys know this.
if this was also posted in the rules, it could act as a backup, in case the person felt offended, or the discussion was getting to much for them.
we all have certain areas we just wont go to, and also let people understand that sometimes "no comment" is useful at times.


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look...read carefully before getting upset Dean...i said if anything they should create a group about sex safety and advice for those who are curious or sexually active...but as of fantasies, talking dirty, and all that other explicit stuff...it should be age restricted...i never said the teens should be fully restricted...and well if there would not be any restriction then Richard is right...there should be a warning explaining that the content may be explicit...but well for me teens shouldn't be saying any explicit things...again referring back to the fantasies and dirty sex talk and other explicit stuff...but well if this offends you...well i'm sorry...but those are my thoughts and feelings about it...i'm sorry we don't agree Dean...


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nigel532
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DEAN Dont give up mate. Iwill help you if i can


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Dennis_Mix
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I think you can talk about any sex you want but keep it clean. Like I gave him a good poke in the back door. It gets a point across and keeps it clean. Do you have a problem with that. I gave him a good back door to have fun with.


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yea i don't know about that Dennis...maybe that would have to be in the whole sex talk stuff...if anything i think the group should be about answering the teens questions about sex and how to be safe and stuff...and well remember that this is not something that's happening for sure...that's for they gays.com staff to decide...we're simply just discussing about it...and anywho as i said...these are my thoughts about it...will they be taken into consideration with all the others that agree with me...who knows...but i hope they do...these teens may not see the reason why these things have to be done...but at the end of the day they're still transitioning from kids to young adults...and well we all had to go thru that...maturity levels differ in each individual...but well at least they should have a group referring to sex safety and all that...like a sex education group...to talk about safety and what to watch out for...but as for the other stuff...i don't think a teen should be around that...cuz i don't think it's appropriate...


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Dennis_Mix
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I don't believe in segregation and that is just what you want to do and if I would have had a friend Like we have here it would have been a lot better for me then I don't want that to happen to them. We are to help each other and be there for support. not push them into some small group and let them stumble.


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dennis i don't know if you're reading what i'm saying correctly...i'm not saying we should push them away...but i really don't see how exposing them to unnecessary explicit stuff is gonna help them not to stumble...and i'll repeat it again...it would be better to have a group that covers the safety of having sex and any dangers that can happen...also to give advice to those who are sexually active...or to seek out advice from those who are experienced...but any other stuff that is highly explicit should be restricted to those who are still teens...i don't think there's anything wrong with that really...and it's not considered pushing them away...


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hey...no age restrictions...but but but no under 16s! This is just for legal issues. So Dean, no need to go any where, but if anyone finds that someone is saying they're 14, 15 or under, please please report them cos that's a no no.

As for the Gays.com team to decide, no...it's for US to decide, this community only exists because of you the members. We are going to decide together and of course we won't all be able to decide on one thing, but we will compromise...and make it so everyone has something.

There will be some things that we won't accept...for example, incest! Talk of incest outside of a support group, isn't allowed. Sex...graphically spoken, I don't think has it's place in all areas of Gays.com but it DOES have it's place in group where member's entering KNOW what will be going down (pun intended!!)

Keep up the discussion, but please don't think that we are sitting here making the decisions...WE as in Gays.com and you ALL will make the decision.


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What was more scary was the guy who actually advertised for 14yo in a comment group when his profile didn't say anything and he just wrote like he was an old!!!


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Michael_Wolfe
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@Dean I am still looking for that discussion and if true Gays.com will take care of the problem..Thx again for the message and the help..


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Dennis_Mix
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You never know so why get upset. Unless you want to take this site down to porn level

Alfawolf


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Michael_Wolfe
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Dennis I don't know who that comment is to...and don't understand what you aare trying to say..


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well i know we all get to decide...because that's the point of asking our opinions...and well of course all of us won't agree on one thing...but a compromise sounds good...so far everything sounds good...


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dennis this site wont become another porn site, we the members wont allow that, and guys take the discussion here in conjunction with the original topic on , and jony if you look at it , tara is asking for people willing to monitor the sites, you should agree to help , along with dennis.
i have already agreed, and made some suggestions, but it is up to tara


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nigel532
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i new i was Gay at 14 ys and had NO one to talk to now iam in my 40 ,s and Will help .IFi CAN I NO WHOT IT IS LIKE TO COME OUT.


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jony, and the rest of you, consider the different grouping of the groups:
Gay guys 16 +
lesbian 16+
bi-sexual 16+
transgender16+
guys 16 and under
girls 16 and under
transgender 16 and under
will you look at this setup , and discuss it, because all these are the main groups and should be catered for.
thanks allan, ps dennis the janissaries are in the town and ravishing the boys? ha ha


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Well i agree with u there Allan, Think i will join the Janissaries LOL


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you know what historiacally the janissaries were: christain children kidnapped when young then brought up in the muslim faith.


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