The Waiting Game
You've started dating someone, but you've not yet had sex. How long should you wait, and what do you need to consider, Asks Alex
The top or bottom obsession
Do gay men place too much emphasis on being active or passive, asks Alex Hopkins.
The party was going quite well – until it
Chemsex: the reality
Alex Hopkins spent years writing about chemsex on the gay scene. Only later did his experiences give him a fresh