Jim_Staley Posted October 2, 2011 Hi I am hoping that one of you can help me out. Back in Dec my boyfriend dumped me after running into his family when we were out on a date. After this happened he stop talking to me. To this day I don't know why. Last night when I got home from work I had the TV on the news and there was a story on about a man killing a dog and getting 180 days in jail for it. Now I love dogs and have two so this got my attention. Come to find out that it was my ex that did this. He said that he was on drugs when this happened. This is a side of him that I never have seen of him and I now know that he is in a very bad spot in his life and going down fast. Now here is where I need your help. I have been in AA for 11 1/2 years so I know how bad he is right now just by his pic that was on. I still care allot about him and this is killing me to see him like this. So should I try to send him a letter and let him know that I still care about him and let him know that I am here to help him if he wants it or should I just stay away?