Deleted Member Posted September 6, 2011 I got a phone call yesterday. The fellow told me he saw my profile, and he would like to meet me. I was going along with him thinking that he was calling about a job for which I recently applied, then he said that he didn't want to meet me in Williamsburgh because there are too many spies, so he suggested Manhattan. I started thinking this was a bit peculiar, and then he asked me if I like to have fun. "What kind of employer is this?" I thought until it dawned on me that I was getting mixed signals, so I asked him how he knows me, and he told me that I gave him my number on some website. On the site, I made it clear in my profile that I do not want people to take advantage of me and I'm not just looking to get my thrills on Blueberry Hill. This guy originally told me he wanted to chat on gmail rather than talk on the phone because he wanted to respect my wishes. When I told him I don't have gmail, so he called me, and now he's talking about "having fun" with a total stranger, telling me he was "ready to go" when he saw my picture. What is with men? Am I too idealistic to expect to find a man who wants more than just "a piece of the rock"? All these people I talk to tell me yeah, yeah. They respect my wishes and don't want to intimidate me, but the bottom line is they're just waiting like squealy little pigs to jump into the sack. Makes me wonder if the LGBT community is really just a waste of my time and I should just accept the fact that I am a lone maverick. Seriously. Is there no man out there who wants more than just soiled sheets?