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For the record, and in all seriousness, I am seeking a warm, loving, caring, monogamous, long (lasting) relationship with an older gentlrman if anyone is interested and/or may know of anyone who might be. I lost my former partner to cancer in 2002. In the meantime, if anyone needs and/or wants a friend, I am available.


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sorry to hear about your loss - it is never easy when they go like that - how long had you been together? not wishing to be nosy or anything - sometimes you just need a shoulder to lean on - if you get bored drop me a line - i will reply but not straight away because i do not go on the computer that much.


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Dear Andrew, Thank you so very for your kind words. Please know they help a lot, and are greatly appreciated. We were together for nine years; he was sick during the last two. I had never felt so alone and/or helpless in my entire life, especially since all of the doctors and specialists could not even help him. It was, by far, the most horrendous and agonizing ordeal I have ever had to endure. Many, many thanks again, and I do plan to keep in touch. William


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Dear William - thank you for the reply - 9 yrs - they must have been wonderful years full of love less even the last 2 yrs though he was ill - never easy but he has gone to a better place is no longer in pain - i am sure he would want you to get on with your life now and find yourself a new man - no matter how difficult that is - i am sure if it was the other way round you would have told him to get on with his life once you had gone so do the same - just keep his memories stored away and think of them at times - but do not dwell it will only make you sad and i am sure he would not have wanted that.

take care and i would love to keep in touch - drop me a line any time i am always here though not always on the computer has you can tell but i will always get back to you.


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Dear Andrew, Thank you very much for your warm answer to my message. You are absolutely right. I have no doubt that Drake is now in Heaven. After all of what he had to endure, I am most thankful to God now that Drake is with Him. But still, that does not lessen my pain of losing him, especially since that was always my deepest and darkest fear of my entire life. (When I grew up, I was constantly surrounded by death.) Consequently, I was always afraid of losing a loved one in my life. And if it ever did happen to me, I was never sure if I would be able to handle it. (If it did ever happen to me, I always thought I would immediately commit suicide.) To this day, I still talk to Drake. Before he passed away, he promised me that he would always still take care of me, so to speak. In the meantime, I can only have faith both in God and Drake. Another reason I did not commit suicide is my deepest fear of God. And I keep thinking that, just like every one else, I will eventually finally die one day myself. Andrew, this is the first opportunity I have had to talk about this--all thanks to you. Indeed, Andrew, I know you are a most special person. And I do really hope you will keep in touch. William


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