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Joshua_Buffalo
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Hey there! I'm a staight-acting Bi looking for a relationship. I don't know where to start out here, it's a pretty quiet community and I stick out like a sore thumb.


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Mark_Watson
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why do you stick out?


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Ronald_Parker
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Maybe you're looking wrong place


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Homer_Bozarth
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try the internet i guess. thats what i do and i live in a small town


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Homer_Bozarth
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i agree with dean


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Rod_Bell
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I agree with Dean as well. Additionally, pick social scenes that arecyour interest. You can find A BF almost anywhere people hang out. By hanging out at gay places you will, of course, meet more gay/bi men. N


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Tach_Chew_We
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well its never easy but hay your in canada where being gay is accepted should be a bit easer for you but you can try finding your local gay communityfor places neer you where gay peiople go and hang out it is a place to start


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Joshua_Buffalo
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Thank you for the kind words Dean, greatly appreciated! I meant that I live in a very quiet farmtown, mostly christians. I'm out and proud here, I wear alot of band t-shirts and am an avid otaku. I'd blend right in if it was the city, but farmtowns are all kind of the same lol.


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Joshua_Buffalo
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There's a real sense of LACK in this town, no gay comunity at all! It's like everyone's hiding here, I need to go to saskatoon more


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Homer_Bozarth
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it sounds alot like Pendleton, Oregon


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Tach_Chew_We
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well you go where ever you like if its gona make you happy wish you luck on your quest


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Joshua_Buffalo
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thanks again Dean! I can't imagine someone as sweet and kind as you (not to mention alluringly handsome) is single.


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Michael_Wolfe
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With a flake pic anyone can be handsome


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Van_Wangye
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I agree with Dear Dean. Go slow Joshua.

Be yourself yet go slow.

In asia is far much much worse due to the culture and conservative religonous influence.


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Michael_Wolfe
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@Van are they hard on gays over there...


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Van_Wangye
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More indirectly. Maybe due to buddhist and Taoist culture of guys must spread their family bloodline. They see girls holding hands and hugging each other seems ok.

But if its guys...you will have many eyes looking at you.

If guys and guys got caught have sex maybe jailed for 2 years.

In here... for guys. Gays = gays. Bisexual guys also = Gays.

Guys are indirectly persecuted more than gals here.


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Michael_Wolfe
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Thx for the help with that..I like learning about what happpens in different areas of the world...


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Van_Wangye
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Religion is the main ingredient which discriminate homosexuality and bisexuality.

Christianity and Islam see it as sin against God.
Buddhism and Taoism see it as sin against your own family bloodline.

Sigh...

Thats why im planning to move out of singapore to somemore a little more liberal and less conservative that i can be myself.


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But from my knowledge, Buddhism and Taoism never stressed out anything about homosexuality or bisexuality But Christian and the sick Islam yes.


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