D.M_Barrera Posted June 15, 2011 Friday I went to a pageant ..mm dragqueens? But some of them already have gone throu the whole sex change. One of the contestants had such an amazing body! She looked just like a woman! Now, I dont want to seem like I descriminate.. i just dont knw if I could date a transgender. Could yu?
Tasha_McMaster Posted June 15, 2011 I guess it would depend on who it is.. but I really don't know lol
jessicazylee Posted June 15, 2011 i dont discriminate on the basis of genitalia or boobs/noboobs. I do however, am a little picky on personality and intelligence. oh and attachments. i'm currently attached, so no.
Charlotte_Barlow Posted June 15, 2011 First of all, transgender does not equate to drag queen. Secondly, of course I would date a transgender/transsexual, not only because I am one myself but because I've never met a moronic transsexual and I could never date anyone who wasn't at least as intelligent as me.
Deleted Member Posted June 15, 2011 @Charlotte Barlow: Props to you for having the guts to say what I've wanted to for... I forget how long. I'd have to agree with you on every front. And I really mean, EVERY front. Is it sad that I am even scared to come out on a site such as this one? Pity.
Kristin_Turner Posted June 15, 2011 rather than getting into all the fine points. all things being equal, intelligence compatability etc, definitely yes and have/
Deleted Member Posted June 15, 2011 Would you date this girl? http://a3.l3-images.myspacecdn.com/images02/107/9ed345475d9f43e392f80248b1d966dd/l.jpg or http://media.onsugar.com/files/2010/12/51/5/1276/12760214/4d33ab9ed5871970_hairstyles_for_girls_with_long_hair.jpg
Lys_Garcia Posted June 15, 2011 They're both really pretty but once again at least for me -- I need to talk to them and get an understanding of who they are before dating them and that's all that really matters to me.
D.M_Barrera Posted June 16, 2011 @Charlotte.. No transgender doesnt equal drag queen. But I said I went to a dragqueen pageant, but some of the contestants had gone through the whole sex change.
Paul_Cox Posted June 16, 2011 Wow, insensitive topic question. It makes transgendered people appear to be objects. Like asking "Would you date a black?" they are people after all...
D.M_Barrera Posted June 16, 2011 Mm no Paul, its not kalling them objects. Its like saying would a lesbian date a bisexual? Atleast i dont see them as any less. Its just that lesbians over and over say how they love a woman because of its femeninity. Btw...why is Paul on a lesbian group anyways?
Paul_Cox Posted June 17, 2011 I honestly have no idea. I wasn't even part of the group and just started getting notifications rearding this topic. I honestly have no idea why. As far as the title, I just thought it'd be nice to say "transgender person", rather than just "a transgender". It's like referring to "a gay". And I'm familiar with the subject because my Bf is trans.
D.M_Barrera Posted June 17, 2011 Mm the thing is, no matter how any body states anything someone is bound to get offended. I've never been able to actually meet a "transgender person" so my curiosity brought me to post this in order to get some feed back from lesbians. I would like to ask more questions, hopefully someone on this group would have some knowledge but I'm concern people will take it the wrong way. So I'll just stay ignorant?
D.M_Barrera Posted June 17, 2011 Mm the thing is, no matter how any body states anything someone is bound to get offended. I've never been able to actually meet a "transgender person" so my curiosity brought me to post this in order to get some feed back from lesbians. I would like to ask more questions, hopefully someone on this group would have some knowledge but I'm concern people will take it the wrong way. So I'll just stay ignorant?
Paul_Cox Posted June 17, 2011 Ok well if you want a gay guys perspective I'm here too. And I've had more than my fair share of experience with FTMs, MTFs, and everything in-between.
Tor_Saff Posted June 17, 2011 i wouldn't discriminate on the basis that someone was born in the wrong body. as long as i can have a conversation with some similar interests then if someone was born with the wrong genitals it wouldn't put me off.
Deleted Member Posted July 27, 2011 Yeah I think I could date a MTF transgender/transexual, both pre opt and post opt. Although I do like me some boobs but you know, ultimately I'm more concerned about whether a girl has pretty eyes and a sharp mind
Charlotte_Barlow Posted July 27, 2011 Good to hear, I have been working on my witticisms too Seriously though, it's nice to hear that you have such an open mind
Deleted Member Posted July 27, 2011 I wouldn't because they are always on edge with hormones and stuff! haha
Deleted Member Posted July 27, 2011 i honestly dont think i could date one, but it all depends on the person and stuff, i'd never say never
jessicazylee Posted July 27, 2011 @leanna that depends on the stage of transition, and if they're taking hormones at all tho i will say, the first few months beginning hormones, yes things are a little haywire. and i do say that with the most affection... my friend said so himself [FTM], "it's like undergoing puberty all over again, except in the span of a few months instead of a few years!"
