Deleted Member Posted March 18, 2011 Hello, there. It's quite late night in here, but since there's one thing I really want to ask u, so I write this one. I hvn't really had a real relationship with others. I hv couples of friends but since I've never talked about my sexual orientation I've always felt like I am hiding sth to my friends and since I am not sure about myself and don't want to make any mistake so that they would notice I..don't usually open my mind that well. I become defensive..and startle with a little thing. Well the introduction was so long. Anyway I want to ask u how u guys meet your lover? I'm not that fond of meeting people just for a night...then how can I meet my..partner? I know it's silly, but to me it's quite a important question..I hope u guys would share your story with me..