Is there such a thing as a “gay community”?
We use the words ‘gay community’ constantly, but what does it really mean to people today, asks Alex Hopkins.
It started as an innocent
“Benefriends”: the pleasures and pitfalls
Would you have sex with your friends? What do you stand to gain or lose with a fuck buddy, asks Alex Hopkins.
Oh, the perils of
Open relationships: revolving doors or dead ends?
Open relationships are common in the gay community. For years Alex Hopkins dismissed them outright, but now, in his mid-thirties and single, he