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I know the bible talks about lesbianism being wrong and all but i cant help being attracted to women. And god also says everyone deserves to be loved. now my thing is im physically disabled and a lil overweight, i cant find anyone who will accept this. dont i deserve love too?


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You do, we all do, gay or straight, you will find someone, it may take a little time, but she;s out there for you, stay on this site, it will hel and we care


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Hi @Regina. I know God wants the very best for you, as He does for all His children. Look up the Old Testament story of Ruth & Naomi. I just discovered this passage, and I know it has helped other lesbian christians. (And don't forget, also, that David, the King of Israel and writer of the Psalms was fairly obviously in love with a younger boy, Jonathan - Quote from the King James, "...their souls were knit...". Sounds like love to me! ;-)


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thank you @ian im actually in love with the book of ruth


Michael_Wolfe
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Again, therefore, Jesus spoke to them, saying, “I am the light of the world. He who follows me will not walk in the darkness, but will have the light of life.” - John 8:12


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in the new testamant it says God is love. It also says says that jesus want to be your best friend. if thaose to things are true than John 3:16 says that "God so love the world that he sent his only begottenson that whowoever believeth in him shoul not perish but have ever lasting life" The bible also says that " By his stripes we were healed, he was pierced for our sins, and he died that the veil between heaven and earth would be torn so that we cccould ourselves talk to God himself" God makes it clear that he loves you the sinner. We are all sinners. Find for me on this bautiful planet sinnless person.(excluding the innocent unmarred children thaat have not been taught to sin yet.) always, kel


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i asked my mom what she would do if i told her i was gay she saaid she would kick me out. she caught me watching porn she slapped me so hard my face hurt for two days


Michael_Wolfe
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Sorry to hear that..May I ask how old you are? I was brought up not to ask a women her age.Maybe I should ask are you over 18?


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yes im over 18.


Michael_Wolfe
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Trust in God and pray..Pray for your mother for her to understand what you are going through and how you are feeling alone..


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i cant wait to move out so i can do wat i want


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I'm sorry that happened to you Regina, parents should be loving and supportive, not violent, please move as soon as it is financially possible for you too, there is a whole beautiful wide world out there waiting for you to explore it! Good Luck, keep in touch, we care


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not only financially but physically


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OK, but get out of there as soon as you can for your sake, take care


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so my mom basically found out last night. after she preached the bible, she kept mumbling how ashamed she was in me saying i want to ba a doctor and resulting on this foolishnesss rather than study


Michael_Wolfe
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Did you tell your mom that you can still be whatever you want to be..Just because your gay does not mean that you are going to be a bum.There are Doc. Lawyer and even Sentors that are Gay and lets not forget Gov of Calif. who stands up for gay rights..But advocate mag and let her read it..Help her understand and if the bible comes into it tell her that God Loves everyone for who they are not what they wear are do..


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Yes, thast's true, being gay does not define who you are as a person any more than straiught does. You can be anything you want , the skys the limit. Tell your mom how you feel, that you're proud to be out and gay and you still want to help people any way you can wether it be as a doctor, or in politics, etc, you are the same person and God does love you



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