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So i guess im not quite sure on how to tell if my girlfriend is cheating on me.
Lately shes been hanging out with alot of people from work and thats fine...i dont mind. Now shes been having my lil brother and one of the girls from her work with her lil boy have lots of play dates. Im just starting to get a lil concerned cause they hang out all the time now and are always texting eachother. When ever i talk to her friend she never has much to say to me and is always quit...but once shes around my gfriend then shes a totally diff person. My girlfriend has a facebook page and i was reading some of her comments and status ( remind u that im NEVER on facebook) and shes always talking to the girl and my fiance has all these comments up about not being happy, that she cant make that one person happy and theres nothing but lies. So i sat back at work thinking for a min that maybe shes not happy or shes having an affair. Her friend from work also always gave me a wierd feeling. I asked my girl if she was happy and she said yes and that im the only thing in life keeping her going. A few weeks ago we got into an argument because she actually told me that she felt i was tying her down and that she has to ask permission to do anything.,,and i was fuckin furious and i actually left her but she apologized and said that she didn mean wat she said and she was just having a bad day. But shes always in a bad mood these days, never wants to really spend time w me and now im left with nothing but to think of the worst. What makes me angry is that i try and talk with her about how shes feeling and she gets pissed but yet she wants to post it to the world on facebook. Ugh just so frustrated and stressed out to the point where i just wanna call things off and let her do her own thing. Help!


First of all Destiney I just want to say I'm sorry you are going through this. I went through a time like that with someone...but I was on the other side of things. I loved someone with all my heart but every tiny thing she did just annoyed the crap out of me. It went on for a while, until I finally just ended it. I knew that if I didn't take a step back we both would of been miserable and wouldn't even have a friendship afterwards. So I think you two should take a step back and think about wht you both want...
Hope this helps