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sexual molestation..... - Lesbian Ladies

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I have been told that I'm gay because as a child into my teens I was molested, in my opinion I think It's a bunch of Crap! I love woman and it has nothing to do with my child hood even tho I do know woman who have stop dating men because of sexual abuse.... What are ya'lls opinions on the subject?


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Amy_Ike
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I also don't buy teat homosexuality is a result of molestation because that can mean that being gay is a choice. Its like saying I choose not to date men/women because I was molested by one. Most of my childhood I was molested by both men and women and today I am a lesbian. If that was a factor then maybe I should stay away from both sexes and become asexual or something. I'm not buying it. I was created and born this way and I love it!


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Amy_Ike
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I really hate when people tell me otherwise. I respect people's opinions and all but just don't say I am who I am because of someone's mistake/wrong doing cos that makes me look like a joke.


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man you guys r right its just something people want to label..... my parents told me the same shit


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Kayann_Cowperthwait
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one of my friends told me that its the mind set of us for why we r lesbain or gay and i think its more mentle then anything else as for sexual abose it efects our trust not our sexual atraction to one another, or at least that is my opinon. jermey, one of my gay guys explains it like this, every one is gay a little bet some more then others. when a women makes a comment like that and u know she watches porn ask her if ther is a women in her porn. cause there is no way to just focaus on the guy so that meeans she was looking at the women while getting off. lol. does that make since?


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Niamh_Mulvany
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I totally agree Ladies. My ex was sexual abused by a woman as a child yet she was totally freaked out by men!!!! She could barely stand to be left alone in a rroom with a bloke as she found them so intimidating!!!!!! People try to explain away why we are gay to try make themselfs more comfortable about it!!!!


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Amy_Ike
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I think its people trying to group homosexuality as one of the mental illnesses so they try to find the "cause" and then the "cure". Well I don't need healing. Call me crazy but I like liking pussy lol!


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D.M_Barrera
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I agree with Kayann. I think everyone has the capability to be attracted to the same sex. Simply because I don't see who can understand a woman more than another woman; or a man more than another man. Our body structures are different, a woman can understand what it feels like to be on your period, to feel emotional, to make love slowly. A man can understand what it feels like to have a "hard on", to have to shave daily, or to want to be rough.

When i flirt with a straight woman, its not because I'm going to change her, it's because I believe I can awaken what is being kept asleep.

As for sexual molestation in childhood. Childhood has alot to do with who the person becomes as an adult, but because you had a downfall doesn't mean you willl turn out to be what society expects. It's each person's ability to deal with an obstacle.

Screw people. They just want more made up reasons to descriminate us


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Lindsey_Carter
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My first "real" relationship with a female that was fully public, the girl sent me to the ER because I caught HER cheating and confronted her about it. I couldn't see out of my right eye for like three months, my whole face was swollen and black and blue, I was in constant pain, they thought she had broke my eye socket, and even now two years later I deal with scar tissue, swelling, and the nerves in the left side of my face not working correctly. If this theory that "emotional/physical pain from one gender can cause you to switch sexual orientations" well then I should really be straight. But I'm a complete lesbian who is VERY happy about that. So yeah, I agree, its all total BS.


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Niamh_Mulvany
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I have to say i totally admire you all. It takes a very strong person to go through that type of emotional/physical abuse and come out on the other side. I know my ex has had a really hard time dealing with it all. But hopefully she will be able to be just like you guys some day.


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IT's a one day at a time process, you just have to tell yourself that your not gonna be a victim anymore your a SURVIVOR. ANd that your not gonna let what they did to you hold you back in life and love. SHe'll beat it.. love to all of ya'll


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