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Shaina_Ball

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curious wanna find a girl to be my first why is it so hard to find a girl?


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Is it hard to find a girl, or is it harder to find a girl that will admit that she is gay/bi/curious......they are out there I guess, try this site least u know they are all gay here


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its actually not that hard to find us you just have to look at your options


Kaitlin_Siler
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I see it both ways. Sometimes I can't find anyone and then sometimes there's a crowd just like me (we first timers)! lol but before too long only one or two of us remain...sounds kinda scary...


Kim_Lew
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Well... I'm in Australia. XP And you gotta find someone who is open minded about it too. But... I dunno, gaydar is a myth, right? Cause I sure don't have it!


Lynette_Lowe
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actually they arent all gay on here soz to burst the bubble. most ive found are just curious not straight up lesbians


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I think it's harder for girls to find other lesbian/gay girls...they don't really have a certain look....and Kim sometimes gaydars really don't work...LOL


Kaitlin_Siler
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Amen to the broken gaydar subject...Everyone of my homosexual friends say I don't have one! I'm always like "well damn..."


Kim_Lew
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Ah... well damn for me too! XP


Laura_Snyder
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I have... well, semi-gaydar lol. I can spot a gay boy from a mile away, but normally, girls are a little harder it seems, for my gaydar to pick them up.


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all i can tell you is what i do. if i see a girl i'm attracted to i find some way to chat with her a bit. i'm pretty easy and open so it's not that hard. then it's just a matter of sending some signals that ur interested, compliment her on her looks, a very light touch on the arm...stuff like that. u'll find out. u just have to be willing to put urself out there. the problem i have and i think u have the same one is that i'm nearly impossible to spot even by someone with terrific gaydar. also i like girls who are very very femme usually. hard to spot 'em.


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^ agreed.



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